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July 2, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

What Has Life Taught YOU? Why Hardships Teach Us the Most Important Lessons!

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Several Years ago I wrote a book, Take the Ride of Your Life!:  Shift Gears for More Balance, Growth and Joy.
This blog is a perfect place for me to share some of my favorite “inspirational and life changing stories” from people who I interviewed.
I’m hoping that you will identify with some of the stories to reduce conflict in the workplace and home.

The Theme of Take the Ride of Your Life

We are who we are today because of that turning point in our life when we learned how to ride our first 2 wheel bike without training wheels.

Think About These Questions

Who taught you how to ride your first bike?
Was it a positive or negative experience?
What memories do you have of that time in your life?
What kind of person are you today as a result of that ride?

David’s Story

David, an accountant, related this story:

“As a boy, I knew my father was proud of me. Unfortunately, he didn’t know how to show it.
There wasn’t a whole lot of positive attitude in my house.”
David remembered the dictum, “You must behave,” was drilled into him and his siblings time and time again.

“In school I was the class clown. I couldn’t talk at home,” he said, “so I had to express myself elsewhere.”

David was around ten or eleven years old when he learned how to ride a bike.
“Some friends taught me. I used a neighborhood boy’s bike; I didn’t have one of my own.
I fell down, and got up again right away.

I felt good whenever I was on a bike, as if anything was possible.”

David’s wife has helped him focus on keeping a positive attitude.
Before they were married she told him: “I won’t marry you if you become like your father.”
Today, David is grateful. “I didn’t want to
raise my kids the way my father raised me.”

Click this link to read testimonials and order your own copy of the book of Take the Ride of Your Life!

Quote from Actress Mary Tyler Moore

You can’t be brave if you’ve only had wonderful things happen to you.
As I look back on the times in my life that taught me the most, they were the difficult times.
By surviving them, I gained a confidence in myself I never could have achieved if I’d led a totally happy life.

Was this helpful?
Please send me your bike story.  Place your comments in the comment box at the end of this post.
       Who taught you how to ride?
       What memories do you have about that important time in your life?
       What lessons did you learn from your parents or other adults when you were a child?

Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts.
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Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.
There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life. 

Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

    I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Click here to order your own copy of Take the  Ride of Your Life!  It is an easy summer read.

 

 

 

Filed Under: Articles on Stress, Conflict in the Workplace, Facts about Stress, Life Coaching Books
Tagged With: Facts about Stress, personal development, stress relief exercises

June 18, 2013 By Joyce Weiss 1 Comment

Joyce’s Recommendation of a GREAT Book

question marksI just read a very powerful and interesting book that blew me away!

The ideas will help reduce conflict in the workplace and immediately improve morale.

You don’t need to be a leader to read this book.

Check out the book only if  you want to think about the importance of WHY you do the things you do and the impact on your future .

Simon Sinek has a simple but powerful model for inspirational leadership all starting with a golden circle and the question “Why?”
His examples include Apple, Martin Luther King, and the Wright brothers.

In 2009, Simon Sinek released the book “Start With Why” — a synopsis of the theory he has begun using to teach others how to become effective leaders and inspire change.

Check out this link to my podcast on “Bold Solutions to Boost the Bottom Line.”

 

 Here are some key points that “spoke” to me.

  •  People don’t buy WHAT you do but WHY you do it.
  • WHY is a belief that is consistent with your values.
  • Trust emerges when another person or company is driven by things other than their own self gain.
  • When you share the same values with others you will earn their trust.
  • The role of a great leader is to create an environment where great ideas can happen.
    Steve Jobs did not come up with the ideas for the ipod…others in the company did.
  • Great leaders serve those who serve them.
    Costko takes care of their employees and the results are reciprocal.

 My WHY is that I get to inspire others to do things to make their life a bit easier.

I help people have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Once I became clear on my WHY it is so much easier to connect with people who want what I offer to them.

Here is a direct quote from Start with Why

“If you believe what we believe and you believe that the things we do can help you, then we are better.
Our goal is to find clients who believe what we believe and work together so that we can all succeed.
We’re looking for people to stand shoulder to shoulder with us in pursuit of the same goal”

 As some of you know I have launched a new FREE communicate with impact assessment which includes a 15 minute phone evaluation. I decided to do this to introduce the new on Demand E-Course, Communicate with Impact. I realize that not every client will be interested in the assessment or course. This is a good thing. I also realize that the clients who see the value for their professional growth and their team will take the assessment and tell others about the E-Course.

Click here if you want to take the FREE Communication Assessment.
Once you take it, we can set up a time for a 15 minute phone evaluation where you will get a personalized action plan.

 

I have a few of questions for you…

  • Are you very specific on the reasons why you do what you do?
  • Do you communicate your WHY to your clients or prospects?
  • Do you market to the right clients?

Feel free to send me your answers to these questions.

I will respond and give you some ideas on how you can become as specific as possible.

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Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss

and Remember…You GET with YOU tolerate!

PS
Remember…Check out this link to my podcast on “Bold Solutions to Boost the Bottom Line.”

 

Click here for the FREE Communication Assessment

Filed Under: Assessment Tools, Communication, Conflict in the Workplace, Continuous Improvement, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Life Coaching Books
Tagged With: improving communication skills, Leadership Consulting, personal development

June 4, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Why Should Your Company or Clients Keep You?

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 One of my clients asked me to talk to her high level administrative professionals on “Empowering Yourself to Success.”
Her team is doing a GREAT job.
My task was to encourage them to get to their next level of continuous improvement.

This blog post contains some of the content that I used in the training.
A future blog post will address the total opposite situation…
How to deal with non-engaged employees.
I hope that you enjoy these ideas.

Make sure and share your concerns, stories, or questions about employee engagement…to reduce conflict in the workplace.

Check out this podcast on TEAM Synergy.

Doing Your Personal BEST
These are some of the comments that the audience answered when I asked them, “How do you do your personal best?”

  • “I ask for more things to do.”
  • “The more I know, the more I can contribute.”
  • “I do what I can to make my boss look good.”

I shared the platform with Olympic Gold Medalist, Mary Lou Retton.
She told me how she feels about doing your personal best.

“Champions don’t wait 4 years to make their heroic opportunity.  They create their opportunity every day.
Champions practice because they treat workouts as the Olympics.
Anyone could win in the Olympics, but could does not count.”

Adding Value

  • Make sure that you contribute more than you cost.
  • Make a difference.
  • Add enough value so that something very important would be missing if you left!

The title of this blog is …Why Should Your Company or Clients Keep You?

This is your chance to send in your answers to this question to me.

What are the reasons?  Hey, if you don’t toot your own horn…who will?

Your answer may be a good one to keep during your next evaluation. 🙂

Use this post for a team meeting

Share this post with your team and ask them the same question.  This is a great team exercise which I use during my training.
People who are modest are asked to go deep and share because we all need to know our strengths.
People who like boasting about themselves are asked to be very honest and share their talents.
The team will let them know if they are just bragging.
Be careful with this one because at times conflict can come out of these transparent exercises.
You know where to find me if you want me to help you discuss these important issues and hold each other accountable.

Was this helpful?
Please share with your team or others who you feel would enjoy the content.
Be sure and give Joyce Weiss Training and Development LLC credit for the information.
Make sure and send me the reasons why your company or clients should keep you.
I will respond and I’m sure this will be an interesting set of comments from my readers.

Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss
And Remember…YOU GET WHAT YOU TOLERATE!

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

 Remember to check out this podcast on Team Synergy by hitting this link

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Continuous Improvement, Respect in the Workplace, Team Synergy
Tagged With: personal accountability, personal development, Respect in the Workplace, team building

May 1, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

The Job Dilemma

I read a very interesting blog post written by Tom Stanfield, a colleague of mine and wanted to share his wisdom with you.
It pertains to MI yet others will find interesting ideas on hiring quality people.  I find that many of my clients need bodies to fill positions because things change so quickly.  This causes conflict in the workplace because expectations are not met.  Employees tell me that they are confused because they were hired to work in one position and the next week they are moved into another role because the company is changing so quickly.

This is nothing new.  This Job Dilemma can be solved when leaders know where to find quality people and how to be transparent on what is expected both from the company and employee.

I’m asked the following question from leaders:  What is accountability coaching?  They usually ask the question when they are exploring the possibility of getting help from a trained consultant to improve communication and improve the flow of the company.
Click here to read my blog post to find out how accountability coaching can help your organization

Enjoy Tom’s article!

M Live Article: The Jobs Dilemma

I read an article by Melissa Anders from M Live The headline is “The Jobs Dilemma”. I must say it was a great job of reporting differing opinions without trying to drive the readers to her conclusion. Nice job Melissa Anders.

There are two sub-headlines. “If Michigan graduates so many skilled students, why can’t they find work here?” and “Online job screening: Are companies missing talented applicants?” I have never had a full-page in any newspaper fall so strongly on my greatest passion; the Talent Management of Michigan Organizations.

There were many facts stated like the mismatch between available jobs and available talent, there are thousands of unfilled jobs on-line but employers say they have a hard time finding qualified candidates, some say the wages offered are too low, some say employers’ expectations are too high, etc.

The scariest statement to me was from Doug Rothwell, President and CEO of Business Leaders of Michigan. He said, “By 2018 Michigan will need to fill 1.3 million jobs, 836,000 of those requiring post-secondary education or training. At current rates we will fall hundreds of thousands short”.

This “battle” for our State’s economy is like the battle the medical world has with cancer. We all want to conquer it, but “it” has “multiple faces” in the overview and a “singular face” with any one individual patient. I have personally learned that when dealing with health issues at the individual level, the patient needs a “patient advocate”. The patient in the “stress of battle” needs an advocate that is intimately involved with the patient but not living in the day-to-day stress of the issue. An “advocate” can help guide the patient’s decisions because they know their needs and desires deeply and are with the patient while consulting with the doctor. They are able to bring observations to both the patient and the doctor.

In my career I was given the opportunity to be the “patient advocate” for the Owner/Operator of a manufacturing company in Grand Rapids. My job was People Development Director. My responsibility was to ensure we had a well qualified, well-trained workforce available to accomplish the corporate goals in the present and into the future. I was an employee of the company, but did not have day-to-day product responsibilities that would distract my focus from Talent Management.

I believe every organization needs someone at the leadership level “driving the Talent Management bus”. If our people are our greatest resource, we need someone that has the understanding of the organizational goals and directions; someone that can project the needs 5, 10 or more years down the road. Someone that can connect to the right sources of the talent the organization will need for the future; an advocate for the entity that cannot speak for itself; the organization.

You would not put an ad on-line for your material inventory needs. Can you imagine an ad that said, “Needed 100,000# of tube stock. Anyone interested in supplying this product please call 616-123-4567”? I don’t believe you would go to Angie’s List to find an electrician to solve a major problem in your facility. Sourcing is the key to controlling the quality of any resource. We need an “advocate” to ensure we connect to the right “doctor”.

Let’s take a tip from the Corrective Action process a lot of organizations use.

1. Define your specific problem or problems. If you have more than one, separate the issues. You cannot solve a generic problem. If you are having trouble finding candidates, define what candidates. Are they Engineers? Are they Welders? Are they Nurses? You cannot solve all of them with the same solution.

2. Determine the right team to work on the problem. If you do not have the right resources in-house, “rent” them. If you were going to build a new building would you use just your staff or would you bring in contractors where needed? Your key people, along with needed outside “experts”, make a great problem solving team.

3. Determine the Root Cause of the problem, not the symptoms. Get to the Root Cause. If you can’t find the right candidates it might be a sourcing issue, or it might be your method of searching for candidates, or it might be your pay scale, etc. If you don’t find the Root Cause of the problem you cannot solve it.

4. Determine Interim Corrective Action. Determine how you can quickly control the problem. This usually means spending a little extra money, but it “stops the bleeding”.

5. Determine Permanent Corrective Action. Once you have “stopped the bleeding” determine the best method of control for the future and get your costs back in line.

I believe we need to get this conversation out of generic statements and into organizational specific statements. After all, how do you eat an elephant?

Who is Tom Stanfield?

Entrepreneurial Business Leader and Business Coach with 40+ years of management experience in automotive tier 1, automotive tier 2 and flat rolled steel processing that supplied the automotive industry; the office furniture industry and the farm implement industry. Proven vision and ability to establish a business culture that focuses on core values and achieve results. Team builder that has learned to harness the natural “flow” of talent in an organization and channel it to create stability and an upward movement of talent while focusing on the bottom line.

Thanks to Tom for giving me permission to share his article with my loyal readers.
Read more of Tom’s articles on his blog

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Thanks for reading and remember…
YOU get what YOU tolerate!

PS
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Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Individual and Team Coaching, Leadership Consulting
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, Leadership Consulting, personal development

March 31, 2012 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

Do You Want to Hear a Podcast With Tips on How to Reduce Stress and Conflict in the Workplace?

My loyal readers have asked me to inform them when I’m interviewed on the radio especially on
the topic of reducing stress and conflict in the workplace.

I was honored to be a guest on the Catalyst Business Talk Radio Show.
I thank David Pace from  Business Speakers Bureau for the introduction.

Do you want to hear my latest podcast on how to Reduce Conflict in the Workplace?
If you answered, “yes”, you’re at the right place.

Check out the entertaining and informative interview that Catalyst Business Talk Radio Show Public Radio produced on
Secrets to Reduce Conflict in the Workplace.

      Click here for the podcast
Click Here  For more great business podcasts from Catalyst Business Talk Radio Show

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Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss
and Remember…You Get What You Tolerate!

PS If you haven’t signed up for the Free Video Series on “Reducing Conflict in the Workplace”… you can do this right now
Click here to register for the Free Video Series

 

Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, Facts about Stress, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication
Tagged With: Communication, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, conflict in the workplace, effective communication, Facts about Stress, how to improve communication skills, improving communication skills, listening skills, personal accountability, personal development, relationships, resolve conflict and interpersonal issues, Respect in the Workplace

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