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September 17, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

5 Ridiculously Simple Ways to Improve Your Team

conflict in meetingYou know those communications…the ones where you just can’t
pay attention or roll your eyes.

Have you ever been on a losing team? What would you have changed
if you were the leader?

Don’t set your team up for failure.
Whether you’re the team leader or a team member,
don’t let the following 5 scenarios happen in your office.

On a Losing Team, People:

1. Do not know what is expected.

2. Do not know how he/she is doing.

3. Cannot do the required skills.

4. Lack organizational support.

5. Have poor relationships.

What Can YOU Do When You See Your Team’s Success Dwindle?

1.  Ask questions and be clear about what is expected from your company, colleagues, and your boss.

2.  Find out how you are doing a few times/year and NOT just during evaluations.

3.  Know what the required skills are for you and others and get training immediately.

4.  Look for another job if there is no support from the top.

5.  You don’t have to like your colleagues.  Let go of old issues if they are getting in the way.
Do your best to change a negative situation into something a bit more manageable in order to
move forward.

Remember…YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

Click here for an article on How to Increase Respect in the Workplace.

Thoughts from Joyce

I know that these 5 ideas sound easy.  They are not always simple to follow.
Please write questions about your own conflict or communication situations at work.
You are not alone.  There is usually a second right answer once you brainstorm with an ally!

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How to Increase Respect in the Workplace and Reduce Stress

 Until next time…This is Joyce Weiss

Remember…YOU Get What You Tolerate!

Don’t run away from conflict. Resolve it now to get respect back in the workplace.

I help people have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep!

Filed Under: Collaboration Strategies, Communication, Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace, Miscellaneous, Team Synergy
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, resolve conflict and interpersonal issues, Respect in the Workplace

August 22, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Do You REALLY Want to Improve Morale?

photo the office superboss

This is the 2nd post about the gems that I learned from the MI Lean Consortium Conference.
The information for this post comes from an incredible LEAN leader and author, Jamie Flinchbaugh.
Employee engagement helps reduce conflict in the workplace…only when programs are put in place after a lot of planning with the entire team.

 

 

 


 

Employee Engagement Works When…

  • Everyone buys into the program, not just the leader or a few people
  • Leaders become teachers and walk their talk
  • Problems with the program are dealt with immediately

3 Important Ideas That Impact Change

  • Behavior is how we act
  • Action is what we do
  • Results are what we get

Build Tension with Change…NOT Stress

  • What is the current reality?
  • What is the vision of the ideal state?

The gap creates tension.  This will help the team forward.  Now discuss what changes need to be made
to get the results that you ALL want.

How to Build Positive Tension

  • Eliminate fear
  • Eliminate comfort
  • Make sure that there is space for learning and making mistakes

 Joyce’s Opinion on Successful Employee Engagement

Respect is NOT about being nice

“Be Direct with Respect ” is our company trademark that has changed the environment for my clients.
The idea is to give your opinion to anyone in a respectful way.
It takes practice to learn communication skills that work!
The GAP is where people learn new behavior for themselves and others.

Click here to find out how you and your team can take an ON Line Master E-Course
Communicate with Impact.
You will be in touch with Joyce for 2 months while you practice
new skills to get the communication results that you deserve.
Learn how to deal with negativity, bullies, time wasters, and boundaries.
You take the class from the comfort of your own home and the class is personalized to fit your needs.

OK, It’s YOUR Turn!

Please share how your company encourages employees to share their opinion to make positive
change in your company.

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Place your comments in the comment box at the end of this post.

Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts.
Feel free to share these ideas. Just make sure and give credit to:
Joyce Weiss Training & Development LLC > www.JoyceWeiss.com

Please let others know about these ideas on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.
There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…
who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home
life.

 Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS  Click here to find out how you and your team can take
an ON Line Master E-Course
Communicate with Impact.

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: bullying in the workplace, Collaboration Strategies, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, employee morale, Respect in the Workplace

August 14, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Employee Engagement Rocks!

cartoon booste office moraleI just attended a very productive few days at the
MI Lean Consortium Conference in Traverse City MI.
I will be sharing some of the “gems” that I learned in the next few blog posts.

LEAN Thinking: Eliminate waste and maximize profits

Andy Dillon, State of MI Treasurer was one of the keynote speakers.

He told us how MI has saved money and increased productivity by using LEAN concepts.

Here are key ideas from his speech:

  • People do things wrong for so long that they don’t know if the system is broken
  • Know your weaknesses and hire people who can fill those gaps
  • Everyone needs to be trained in LEAN in order for it to be successful
  • Leaders not only have to buy into the LEAN concepts…they have to be part of the change

Mr. Dillon and his team spoke to numerous state employees and REALLY heard what was needed
to get more employee engagement. As a result morale and productivity went up after employees
had a chance to share ideas on how to improve things for both citizens and themselves.

The idea is…don’t ask for input unless you will do something about it!

You may be wondering…Joyce, what is your interest in LEAN Thinking?
Once there is change, there is conflict.
I will be assisting LEAN consultants on how to manage conflict.

It takes a while for people to like and understands LEAN thinking.
There will always be the naysayers who complain and try to derail the process.
LEAN consultants use several tools to help change and I will help make the process move forward.

I will be learning about the concepts and start taking courses through the MI Lean Consortium
because I see such value and the results are over whelming.

Please share if you use LEAN Thinking concepts and how they have helped.
Also share frustrations that you have experienced and we can start an interesting conversation
on how to move forward.

Below is a link to the Mi Lean Consortium.
Their philosophy is “Making MI the Benchmark for Economic Success.”
Michigan Lean Consortium website

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Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts.
Feel free to share this post. Just make sure and give credit to:
Joyce Weiss Training & Development LLC > www.JoyceWeiss.com
Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.

There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…
who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their
working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS  Check out my short interview on The Leaning Edge Radio Show about
communicating ideas between employees and ways to eliminate wasteful
conversations
with host and MLC Chair, Debra Levantrosser.  
The Leaning Edge Radio Show with Debra and Joyce

Filed Under: Communication, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, Continuous Improvement, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace
Tagged With: Communication, conflict in the workplace

May 1, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

The Job Dilemma

I read a very interesting blog post written by Tom Stanfield, a colleague of mine and wanted to share his wisdom with you.
It pertains to MI yet others will find interesting ideas on hiring quality people.  I find that many of my clients need bodies to fill positions because things change so quickly.  This causes conflict in the workplace because expectations are not met.  Employees tell me that they are confused because they were hired to work in one position and the next week they are moved into another role because the company is changing so quickly.

This is nothing new.  This Job Dilemma can be solved when leaders know where to find quality people and how to be transparent on what is expected both from the company and employee.

I’m asked the following question from leaders:  What is accountability coaching?  They usually ask the question when they are exploring the possibility of getting help from a trained consultant to improve communication and improve the flow of the company.
Click here to read my blog post to find out how accountability coaching can help your organization

Enjoy Tom’s article!

M Live Article: The Jobs Dilemma

I read an article by Melissa Anders from M Live The headline is “The Jobs Dilemma”. I must say it was a great job of reporting differing opinions without trying to drive the readers to her conclusion. Nice job Melissa Anders.

There are two sub-headlines. “If Michigan graduates so many skilled students, why can’t they find work here?” and “Online job screening: Are companies missing talented applicants?” I have never had a full-page in any newspaper fall so strongly on my greatest passion; the Talent Management of Michigan Organizations.

There were many facts stated like the mismatch between available jobs and available talent, there are thousands of unfilled jobs on-line but employers say they have a hard time finding qualified candidates, some say the wages offered are too low, some say employers’ expectations are too high, etc.

The scariest statement to me was from Doug Rothwell, President and CEO of Business Leaders of Michigan. He said, “By 2018 Michigan will need to fill 1.3 million jobs, 836,000 of those requiring post-secondary education or training. At current rates we will fall hundreds of thousands short”.

This “battle” for our State’s economy is like the battle the medical world has with cancer. We all want to conquer it, but “it” has “multiple faces” in the overview and a “singular face” with any one individual patient. I have personally learned that when dealing with health issues at the individual level, the patient needs a “patient advocate”. The patient in the “stress of battle” needs an advocate that is intimately involved with the patient but not living in the day-to-day stress of the issue. An “advocate” can help guide the patient’s decisions because they know their needs and desires deeply and are with the patient while consulting with the doctor. They are able to bring observations to both the patient and the doctor.

In my career I was given the opportunity to be the “patient advocate” for the Owner/Operator of a manufacturing company in Grand Rapids. My job was People Development Director. My responsibility was to ensure we had a well qualified, well-trained workforce available to accomplish the corporate goals in the present and into the future. I was an employee of the company, but did not have day-to-day product responsibilities that would distract my focus from Talent Management.

I believe every organization needs someone at the leadership level “driving the Talent Management bus”. If our people are our greatest resource, we need someone that has the understanding of the organizational goals and directions; someone that can project the needs 5, 10 or more years down the road. Someone that can connect to the right sources of the talent the organization will need for the future; an advocate for the entity that cannot speak for itself; the organization.

You would not put an ad on-line for your material inventory needs. Can you imagine an ad that said, “Needed 100,000# of tube stock. Anyone interested in supplying this product please call 616-123-4567”? I don’t believe you would go to Angie’s List to find an electrician to solve a major problem in your facility. Sourcing is the key to controlling the quality of any resource. We need an “advocate” to ensure we connect to the right “doctor”.

Let’s take a tip from the Corrective Action process a lot of organizations use.

1. Define your specific problem or problems. If you have more than one, separate the issues. You cannot solve a generic problem. If you are having trouble finding candidates, define what candidates. Are they Engineers? Are they Welders? Are they Nurses? You cannot solve all of them with the same solution.

2. Determine the right team to work on the problem. If you do not have the right resources in-house, “rent” them. If you were going to build a new building would you use just your staff or would you bring in contractors where needed? Your key people, along with needed outside “experts”, make a great problem solving team.

3. Determine the Root Cause of the problem, not the symptoms. Get to the Root Cause. If you can’t find the right candidates it might be a sourcing issue, or it might be your method of searching for candidates, or it might be your pay scale, etc. If you don’t find the Root Cause of the problem you cannot solve it.

4. Determine Interim Corrective Action. Determine how you can quickly control the problem. This usually means spending a little extra money, but it “stops the bleeding”.

5. Determine Permanent Corrective Action. Once you have “stopped the bleeding” determine the best method of control for the future and get your costs back in line.

I believe we need to get this conversation out of generic statements and into organizational specific statements. After all, how do you eat an elephant?

Who is Tom Stanfield?

Entrepreneurial Business Leader and Business Coach with 40+ years of management experience in automotive tier 1, automotive tier 2 and flat rolled steel processing that supplied the automotive industry; the office furniture industry and the farm implement industry. Proven vision and ability to establish a business culture that focuses on core values and achieve results. Team builder that has learned to harness the natural “flow” of talent in an organization and channel it to create stability and an upward movement of talent while focusing on the bottom line.

Thanks to Tom for giving me permission to share his article with my loyal readers.
Read more of Tom’s articles on his blog

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Thanks for reading and remember…
YOU get what YOU tolerate!

PS
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Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Individual and Team Coaching, Leadership Consulting
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, Leadership Consulting, personal development

April 11, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

You Have to Listen to This!

conflict cave can u get along

How would you like to  find time to do the things that you want to do with more energy?

I teach people to have TOUGH conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.
Many of my clients tell me that they wake up in the middle of the night trying to figure out what to say to a boss, co-worker, or a negative person in their personal or professional life.

This blog post will give you a few tips so you can be direct, gain control and stop wasting time trying to figure out what to say to that person!

Joyce is interviewed for The Leading Edge radio show by Debra Levantrosser

Listen to this 7 minute radio show (The Leaning Edge) where Debra Levantrosser  interviewed me on this very subject.

Debra is the Founder of The MI Lean Consortium (MLC).
MLC was founded in 2008 by a group of forward-thinking individuals who firmly believed that if every MI organization
used lean principles, the state’s economy would rebound.
Debra Levantrosser is a leading international professional in the areas of productivity improvement, alignment and change, and facilitation and planning.
She is also the founder of Arbed Solutions which helps business grow and develop the next generation of leaders.
She interviews key players who use the LEAN concepts to reduce waste at their work.

Click here to listen to the radio show & learn how to gain control during those tough conversations

4 DON’TS in Using Constructive Feedback

Okay, you’ve worked on staying calm when others give you constructive feedback.

When people give constructive feedback, they do it to influence future behavior – not to change the past.
Though it may be difficult to hear, try to listen … and:

1. Don’t defend yourself.

2. Don’t deny responsibility.

3. Don’t counter attack.

4. Don’t withdraw.

Click here to listen to the radio show & learn how to gain control during tough conversations

 

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Find out more about The MI Lean Consortium by clicking here.

Until next time, this is Joyce Weiss
and REMEMBER…YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

 

Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, constructive feedback, how to improve communication skills, resolve conflict and interpersonal issues

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