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November 18, 2013 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

You Have to Read This to See the Importance of JOY at Work

menloPeriodically I share innovative projects and systems that my colleagues or clients are doing to reduce conflict in the workplace and create employee engagement. This post is about a company based in Ann Arbor, MI. It’s fearless leader, Rich Sheridan’s title says it all – “CEO, Chief Story Teller & Tour Guide.”    Anna Flynn who is also in the photograph has the following title…“Jack of all Trades.”

Menlo Innovations is a leader in the business value of joy and is passionate about building quality software. They have been voted the 101 Best & Brightest Companies to Work numerous times.

The minute I walked in I knew I was not in a “normal” place! There was no receptionist. There were no cubicles. The room was full of people laughing and working together. Rich was right in the middle of all of this and was NOT in a special gold studded office.

 The following are just a few of the best practices at Menlo Innovations:

  • pairing; no one works alone 
  • change partners every 5 days
  • open and collaborate workspace
  • 40 hour work weeks
  • pets and babies at work
  • making mistakes faster

Menlo’s way of hiring new team members:

Team members and leaders don’t ask any questions to the job applicants. Job applicants are put to work immediately. There are 30-50 people working at the same time during the interview. The applicant experiences what they will be doing if they get hired… to make sure that they like this kind of environment without micro managers. In 20 minutes they switch pairs. This process takes 2 hours.

 After they leave employees gather to analyze what they observed. The team discusses whether the job applicants bring out all the best qualities in their partners. The applicant’s job is to make the other applicant look as good as possible.

When they make the cut applicants are invited back for the 2nd interview and get paid for their time. If they make this cut they work for 3 weeks to see if they like the Menlo Way and if Menlo sees a fit.

How does Menlo deal with conflict?

Team members receive feedback from a peer group whenever they request it. When team members have an issue with others they are empowered to take care of this themselves. A factory floor manager gives them strategies if they need extra assistance. Managers don’t get involved.

 Check out Joy, Inc: How We Build a Workplace People Love by Richard Sheridan.   

 Rich offers an inside look at how he removed the fear and ambiguity that typically make a workplace miserable. I will be writing another blog post about Menlo Innovations after I read Joy, Inc.

Check out this video on resources to reduce conflict in the workplace to increase morale at work.

 Thoughts From Joyce

I can just hear some of you thinking…”I would love to work at Menlo Innovations” or “This will never work at my company.” Why not? Start with small steps. Reread some of my past posts on how other companies engage their employees.

 Let me know what you do to engage your employees to bring JOY at work. When I started my career, leaders told me NOT to have their employees laugh during my presentation. Leaders only wanted serious training to increase productivity. They only wanted me to share strategies. I’m so glad that this archaic thinking has changed. Those of you who know my personality realize that humor is part of my life and every training project. Laughter and getting energy from each other makes a great training session rock!

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Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress… who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

 PS. Check out this video on Resources to reduce conflict in the workplace to increase morale at work.

Filed Under: Collaboration Strategies, Continuous Improvement, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Respect in the Workplace, Team Synergy
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, employee morale, team building

October 29, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Powerful Secrets to Liberate Your Team

get new employees In the last blog post you read how Daniel Pink (author of Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us) describes motivation 1 and 2. This blog post will cover how to reduce conflict in the workplace and liberate your team.

Motivation 3 is about 3 of my favorite words…quality and continual improvement. Daniel Pink tells us that “Human beings have an innate inner drive to be autonomous, self determined, and connected to one another. And when that drive is liberated, people achieve more and live richer lives. People are devoted to becoming better and better at something that matters. It connects that quest for excellence to a larger purpose.”

ROWE: Results Only Work Environment

The ROWE environment is one where people can get the work done how they want and wherever they want as long as they get it done. It’s all about creating conditions for people to do their best work.

  • Meddius a software company promotes an environment where people focus on doing the work and not on being judged for wanting to go to their daughter’s soccer game. It’s not about the money…it’s about the feeling of freedom and autonomy.
  • Atlassian an Australian software company encourages employees to spend a day working on a problem they want to solve, even if it isn’t part of their regular job. They work 24 hours on solving a problem and share their discoveries the next day with their team. Many great ideas come out of this problem solving day. The management serves chocolate cake and beer during the 24 hours.
  • Netflix the company that offers us movies or TV series allows employees to take as much time off as long as they get their work done or covered. They focus on what people get done and not how many hours or days they worked.

Features of Autonomy

  • What people do
  • When they do it
  • How they do it
  • Whom they do it with

Liberated Behavior Emerges When People Have Autonomy Over the 4 T’s

  • Their task
  • Their time
  • Their Technique
  • Their Team

Thoughts from Joyce

You may be thinking something like…”Joyce, this sounds really interesting BUT this will not work in my company or with my team. I realize that your corporate structure may not “allow” this kind of liberation. I do encourage you to be open and to see how you can make some realistic changes to start liberating your people.

The most important ingredient in this entire blog is to make sure you have people working at your company who want to be autonomous. They must have a growing mindset. You need to trust them. They need to do quality work. Another words…Do you have a team who can be liberated on their own watch? Can they be autonomous? If not, none of these ideas will work. The next blog post will give more strategies on how to liberate your team.

I have just created a new program called Keys to Employee Engagement: Love What You Do! Please call me at 800.713.1926 for details on how we can start making powerful changes in your work environment.

Click here to watch my short video on the
Importance of Constant Improvement

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Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

Click here to watch my short video on the
Importance of Constant Improvement

Filed Under: Conflict in the Workplace, Continuous Improvement, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Miscellaneous, Team Synergy
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, employee morale, personal accountability

October 16, 2013 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

You Have to Read This Book on New Ideas to Motivate Others

cartoon oops fb out of timeIf you want to reduce conflict in the workplace and fully engage yourself or your team then read on! Daniel Pink is the author of DRIVE: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us.

The next few blog posts will describe important aspects of autonomy that you can adapt for yourself or your team. Some of the information is not new YET Daniel Pink shares interesting strategies to explore what motivates you and others.

Autonomy is always an issue that my clients want me to cover in their training. They always ask me, how can I motivate my team or fire up the troops? 

 This post and the ones that follow will help start your own journey on this topic.

Click here for my short video on The Importance of Being Accountable.

 Daniel Pink tells us that Motivation 1 is about survival only.

Motivation 2 is about a drive to seek reward and avoid punishment such as bonuses or incentive plans.

I will describe Daniel Pink’s ideas about Motivation 3 in the next blog post.  I will give you a hint…it is all about autonomy.

 Motivation 2 sounds like…”If you do this…you will get this.” For example, “If you improve productivity we will give you a bonus.”  People expect these kinds of rewards all the time and it  takes away their autonomy.  People don’t have control of their lives with this kind of motivation.  They eventually do the task for the reward.

The carrots and sticks approach creates the following behavior:

  • Diminishes performance
  • Crushes creativity
  • Fosters short term thinking

At times the carrots and sticks approach will work.  For example, promise an office party if the team does some mundane task on a weekend. “If you come to the office on the weekend to stuff envelopes, we will have a gourmet dinner delivered to our office this week.”  There is no hidden agenda in this statement.  The team knows that for this one mundane project, they will get rewarded.

Carrots and Sticks (Motivation 2) works when:

  • You offer a rational for why the task is necessary
  • Acknowledge that the task is boring
  • Allow people to complete the task their own way

Please share the good or bad news on how you use this kind of approach.
What has worked and what has back fired when you use the “if you do this…you will get this” approach?

Look for strategies on the new way of motivating others in the next few blogs. I will share case scenarios that I have seen with my own clients on how they have turned non engaged teams into self motivated employees.

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Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.

There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress… who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

 

PS Click here to check out my short video on the importance of autonomy

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Team Synergy
Tagged With: doing more with less, employee morale, personal accountability, team building

October 1, 2013 By Joyce Weiss 1 Comment

Leadership Secrets Learned from Breaking Bad

breaking bad

I am a BIG fan of the TV series “Breaking Bad.”
It is intriguing to see how much positive hype is taking place right after
the powerful ending.
Many of the actors are giving such accolades to the entire writing team,
directors, producers  and staff.
They worked together for over 5 seasons and they still think of everyone
as a family.

 

 

So are you wondering…

“How in the world is the cast still feeling such a connection with each other?”

I heard the following statements in interviews from the show’s writers and actors.
They fit perfectly with the themes that I share with you weekly on dealing with conflict
in the workplace and improving communication.

Strong teams need to communicate openly in order to create an engaging environment.

Strong teams need to know:

1. “Tell me what you expect from me.”

2. “Give me an opportunity to perform.”

3. “Let me know how I’m getting along.”

4. “Give me guidance where I need it.”

5. “Recognize me for my contributions.”

Each actor and writer mentioned that they were able to ask these questions to directors and
producers. They helped create such a cohesive group of people.
Are these sentences being spoken in your workplace?

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What do you do to engage your team?
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Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.
There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…who could benefit
from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Click here to listen to Joyce’s podcast on Creating Team Synergy

PPS Click here to discover how you can have tough conversations and get a better night’s sleep
by mastering your communication skills.
Joyce will support you for 2 months during her
Master E-Course Communicate with Impact.

 

Filed Under: Collaboration Strategies, Communication, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Increase Respect in the Workplace, Miscellaneous
Tagged With: effective communication, employee morale, improving communication skills

August 22, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Do You REALLY Want to Improve Morale?

photo the office superboss

This is the 2nd post about the gems that I learned from the MI Lean Consortium Conference.
The information for this post comes from an incredible LEAN leader and author, Jamie Flinchbaugh.
Employee engagement helps reduce conflict in the workplace…only when programs are put in place after a lot of planning with the entire team.

 

 

 


 

Employee Engagement Works When…

  • Everyone buys into the program, not just the leader or a few people
  • Leaders become teachers and walk their talk
  • Problems with the program are dealt with immediately

3 Important Ideas That Impact Change

  • Behavior is how we act
  • Action is what we do
  • Results are what we get

Build Tension with Change…NOT Stress

  • What is the current reality?
  • What is the vision of the ideal state?

The gap creates tension.  This will help the team forward.  Now discuss what changes need to be made
to get the results that you ALL want.

How to Build Positive Tension

  • Eliminate fear
  • Eliminate comfort
  • Make sure that there is space for learning and making mistakes

 Joyce’s Opinion on Successful Employee Engagement

Respect is NOT about being nice

“Be Direct with Respect ” is our company trademark that has changed the environment for my clients.
The idea is to give your opinion to anyone in a respectful way.
It takes practice to learn communication skills that work!
The GAP is where people learn new behavior for themselves and others.

Click here to find out how you and your team can take an ON Line Master E-Course
Communicate with Impact.
You will be in touch with Joyce for 2 months while you practice
new skills to get the communication results that you deserve.
Learn how to deal with negativity, bullies, time wasters, and boundaries.
You take the class from the comfort of your own home and the class is personalized to fit your needs.

OK, It’s YOUR Turn!

Please share how your company encourages employees to share their opinion to make positive
change in your company.

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Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts.
Feel free to share these ideas. Just make sure and give credit to:
Joyce Weiss Training & Development LLC > www.JoyceWeiss.com

Please let others know about these ideas on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.
There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…
who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home
life.

 Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS  Click here to find out how you and your team can take
an ON Line Master E-Course
Communicate with Impact.

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: bullying in the workplace, Collaboration Strategies, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, employee morale, Respect in the Workplace

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