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June 26, 2018 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

How to Improve Meetings and Increase Morale

Do you want to improve meetings and increase morale?
Have you seen creativity disappear the moment someone says something negative?

Whatever you do … don’t squelch creativity.  This article will help you reduce conflict in the workplace and improve meetings by NOT using certain words.

Improve Meetings by Avoiding these words: team building lessons | improve meetings

  • Yes, but….
  • We tried that before
  • We haven’t got the manpower
  • Don’t rock the boat
  • Great idea, but not for us
  • It’s not in the budget
  • Silence….

Improve Meetings by using positive phrases career coach | improve meetings

When someone says one of the killer phrases you can always put a spin on the statement by saying,

  • “If we could try that idea what do you think will happen?”
  • “If we did have enough people, how would that make a difference?”
  • “If we did have money in the budget, what is the first thing that you would do with it to increase morale?”

You will be amazed at how fast conflict in the workplace is lessened when the team starts paying attention to these killer phrases. You will improve meetings and hear more laughter at work!

Improve Meetings by Adding Fun

My clients create ground rules to make sure that the team knows that they will be held accountable if they say the killer phrases.  The team needs to be consistent and hold everyone responsible if the negative words are mentioned.

Of course…the idea is to add some fun in the workplace while you improve meetings and increase morale.
We don’t want to add more stress to your environment, so do your best to add a positive spin to this activity! 🙂

You can have the guilty party place $1.00 in a pot which can be used to give to the team’s favorite charity, pizza or ice cream. Please send me ideas on how you have stopped these negative phrases to reduce conflict in your workplace.

I want to hear from you

Add a comment to my blog on how you deal with negativity to improve meetings. You will receive a response from me because I enjoy connecting with my readers! 🙂  You are always welcome to send me a private email with concerns that you are experiencing at work.  Send me an email here or share your ideas in the comment section.

Please share this and any article that speaks to you or your company

Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts. Help us help them reduce conflict and improve leadership skills and quality of life.

This is Joyce Weiss
Corporate Communication Strategist and Career Coach

Until next time, Remember…”You Get What You Tolerate!”

PS  Learn how I can leverage my 30+ years of leadership consulting and coaching experience to help your organization address conflict resolution in the workplace here.

 

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Improve meetings
Tagged With: employee morale, improve meetings

July 2, 2017 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Effective Communication and Leadership Strategies

Effective CommunicationDo you know if you use effective communication strategies?
Do you know how your team honestly thinks how you conduct meetings?
What do you think the #1 reason is why teamwork fails?

I ask my leaders and their direct reports to answer this questions during training and executive coaching sessions. The number one reason is poor communication strategies at work. I’m sure that this is no surprise to you.

The following reasons were also mentioned:

  • Disengaged team members
  • Unclear goals/strategies
  • One-upmanship
  • Lack of trust
  • Everyone likes to talk, but few like to listen
  • Negativity

This article will cover three effective communication strategies to discuss with your team especially if you are a leader who wants to improve your team communication.

Effective Communication Strategy #1: Strong Leadership

Ask your team how they would you rate your own communication skills. I’m sure your team is doing well if you receive honest feedback and the score is high.
I find that leaders who don’t know how to deal with disengaged team members miss a huge opportunity because the engaged members start resenting their leader for NOT taking care of disengagement.

Effective Communication Strategy #2: Leaders Taking Control of Meetings

You read this right. Sometimes we think that our meetings are better than they really are and thanks to the feedback we can find out if this is true! The following are questions to discuss with your team:

  • Do you encourage participation from everyone?
  • Do you control side bars when people discuss their own agendas to the person next to them?
  • Are your goals and expectations clear?
  • Do you follow up to make sure tasks are getting completed?Your meetings are probably not the most productive if your team did not answer yes to these questions. Asking for and accepting constructive feedback from direct reports is the sign of a strong leader.

Effective Communication Strategy #3: Knowing How to Stop Negativity

Ask yourself these important questions:

  • Is morale low because your team talks about the same negative topics and nothing gets resolved?
  • Do you notice new direct reports starting to lose their enthusiasm because of a few team complainers?

Leaders need to take negativity seriously because their team expects them to stop the negative people from draining the oxygen in the room. I’ve written numerous articles on how everyone is responsible for team morale even though it starts with leaders.

Let’s Get Real About Effective Communication

You’re fortunate if your team gives you constructive feedback about your communication and leadership skills. In past articles, I’ve discussed the importance of uncovering blind spots that we all possess. Executive coaching is a perfect venue to delve into these issues. Clients learn about themselves and the results speak for themselves especially when team members start noticing the positive change.

You can hire someone to do a 360 interview about yourself by asking your supervisor, direct reports, colleagues, and clients to anonymously discuss your strengths and areas of improvement. Feel free to send me an email if you want to find out about this important exercise.

Check out my article on Strategic Communication Strategies to Help Employees Grow.

Hopefully, you know when your meetings, morale, or team communication are productive. At times, we are so busy doing our important tasks that we are blind to see what’s really going on with our softer skills. That’s why feedback is a 2-way street and not just for direct reports.

I want to hear from you

Send me your questions or comments on how you and your leaders deal with disengaged team members, negativity or making meetings productive.

This is Joyce Weiss, Leadership Consultant and Executive Coach

Learn how I can leverage my 30+ years of communication and leadership consulting and coaching experience to help your organization address executive coaching strategies here.

Until next time,

Remember…“You Get What You Tolerate!”

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Dealing with Complainers, Improve meetings
Tagged With: constructive feedback, effective communication, employee morale

May 8, 2017 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

A Communication Strategy That Really Worked with My Family

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCOH-8Z-fs8

Would you like to learn a communication strategy to use the next time you initiate a family dinner or business meeting?

Have you ever attended a family gathering or business meeting and it seemed like the stars were lined up – where everyone spoke and had a chance to share his or her thoughts?  If so, did you ever analyze why it was such a successful time for you and others?  This article is about one of those perfect family dinners.

My story starts during an evening where everyone got along and the communication flowed as if was a well-directed play.   A cousin of mine was in town visiting his mother.  He and I enjoy lunch or coffee each time he visits her.  This time he expressed an interest in getting to know my grown children and their kids.  I invited my family to come to dinner.  They all accepted the invitation because they knew that I’m a huge fan of this cousin.

Here’s the hard part of my story.  I decided to sit back and not speak as much as I usually do because this night was about the family getting to know each other.  It was not about me interjecting my own opinion about our family history.  Remember I told you that keeping silent is a tough behavior of mine!  The good news is I’m glad that I observed the magic happening right before my eyes.

The communication strategies below can help you the next time you initiate a family gathering or business meeting.

communication strategyCommunication Strategy #1:  It helps if everyone is motivated to attend

Of course, this is tough for meetings at work but, it can be done when leaders create a positive environment for everyone.  Food and a focused agenda help.  You can invite colleagues and direct reports who you feel have the right attitude to attend the meeting.

I don’t know about you, some of our family gatherings aren’t picture perfect.  The timing may not be right or family members were tired.  Well, this time everyone was eager to be there.  It worked because my cousin reached out and my kids were thrilled that he wanted to get to know them better.

Communication Strategy #2:  Leaders need to sit back at times and let the conversation flow

Leaders usually start the conversation, ask questions, and follow his or her agenda.  The magic happens when leaders don’t give their opinion but, observe and listen to others.  People are open when they want to be there and when they feel valued.  The quiet ones feel more comfortable and contribute when they see the leader relaxed and not micromanaging the meeting.

Of course, I wanted to interject a story here or there and I chose not to.  Instead, I let the family make their own conversation.  Again, this was not easy but so enjoyable to watch.

Communication StrategyCommunication Strategy #3:  Ask questions about others that show you are interested in them

This communication strategy is so basic yet is one of my secrets to success.  My grandkids always hear me express how important it is for them to ask questions to others.  Making other people feel important is something  I find missing from many communications.  I know you know what I mean.  It’s usually all about the speaker – a one-sided conversation.

Back to my story:  Each person asked questions about the other person during the entire dinner.  The result was that everyone felt appreciated. The laughter and positive atmosphere were apparent and I was smiling internally during the entire evening.

Now for some reality

The communication strategy is simple yet so hard to do when there’s a narcissist or bullies at the event.  You know I had to bring these two characters up since they seem to follow me and my loyal readers around. 🙂    It’s still possible to use the communication strategy.

Just remember to concentrate on the people who you want to speak with during the event.  You read this correctly.  Ignore the bully or narcissist.  They will either get the idea and move to another target or try to sabotage your communication. At least you tried to stop the bully from taking over.

You need to remain in control.  Don’t let these negative behaviors stop you from enjoying others.   Remember, “You get what you tolerate!”  Tell yourself that you are in control and that you’re not going to let the “negativos” ruin your time.  Believe me when I tell you this is very hard to do.  It’s also possible because I’ve worked on this behavior many times in my own life.  My clients thank me for supporting them to gain control with these toxic people.

I want to hear from you!

Send me your questions or comments on what is and what isn’t working with your family or business gatherings.

This is Joyce Weiss, Communications Strategist and Coach
I provide personalized coaching and Premier Programs for individuals and groups.

Learn how Joyce Weiss can leverage her 30+ years of leadership consulting and coaching experience to help your organization address and discover communication strategies HERE

Until next time, Remember…”You Get What You Tolerate!”

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Improve meetings, Improving Communication
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, listening skills, relationships

October 5, 2014 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Today’s Guest Expert is Guaranteed to Boost YOUR Morale

I am sending this blog post out since it accidentally was sent on Labor Day when many of you were not on your computer!  At least I hope you were enjoying your time away from work!  This post will introduce you to a guru in Boosting Morale in the Workplace and contains an audio interview and text on employee engagement which will reduce conflict in the workplace.  There are so many unique ideas for you to use.  These strategies have all been tested and the results are impressive.

Do you have friends or family members who just hate to go to work every day because they feel like they’re drowning in the turbulent seas of workplace negativity?

Well, Harriet Meyerson, founder of ConfidenceCenter.com,  shows supervisors and managers how to engage employees. In today’s interview Harriet is going to tell you three categories of morale boosters you must have to create a happy, positive workplace. And she is going to give you activities in each category that you can use to raise morale starting today… even if you have a shoestring budget.

Enjoy the Interview Below! 
Let me know what techniques you used after listening to Harriet to help reduce conflict in your workplace.

 

How to Get More Employee Morale Ideas?

Harriet invites all our listeners to visit her web and sign up for free employee morale boosters:

 1. Employee Morale Assessment so you can rate your company in 7 key areas.
2. List of the Top Ten Morale Boosters that you can start using today to create a positive atmosphere.
3. Weekly newsletter with creative employee morale activities to create your “Islands of Positivity.”
So go to ConfidenceCenter.com –
Enter your name and email into the sign up for our free morale boosters and you will be on your way to a happier, more positive

How did you get involved in helping companies improve employee morale?

Here’s my “in a nutshell” story about how I developed my system for improving employee morale.  I started out as a Teacher, and when I stopped teaching my husband, a doctor with a busy office and a large staff asked me to be his office manager. Here’s where I got a real understanding of the day-to-day challenges with employees.  Then, the “teacher” in me decided to take what worked for me and teach workshops, so I opened The Confidence Center to work with companies in my home town of Dallas, Texas, and later created our website where we work with companies around the world.

One day I got a call from the manager of a call center.  Jill, the manager, said, “We have about 100 employees, and morale is so bad here, and absenteeism is so high that we have to hire extra people because we anticipate a certain percentage of employees just won’t show up.” I told Jill, “I can come to your company and show you and your supervisors how to raise morale every day so that employees will look forward to coming to work.” And Jill said, “ But our company doesn’t have the budget for expensive morale boosting events, in fact, if anything cost over $50 we have to make a special requisition for it” and I replied, “Don’t worry, I can show you how to Fire Up Your Staff on a Shoestring Budget… and we scheduled a VIP day where I came to her company and met with her and her supervisors.

Within only 2 months miracles happened. Absenteeism was almost totally eliminated because employees were afraid that if they stayed home they would miss out on the fun. The company stopped hiring extra employees saving thousands of dollars. Employees stopped bickering and complaining as they learned to work together as a team.

What conflict do you see in the workplace that reduces employee morale?

Here’s 5 things that create a lot of negativity in the workplace.
1. Resentment – some employees are resentful of others who are not doing their share of the work.
2. Jealousy – for example, in healthcare, there can be jealousy from the front office staff of the nursing staff, who are generally paid a lot more and have more prestige.
3. Gossip – employees talking negatively about their coworkers
4. Bickering – some employees just don’t get along.
5. Complaining – some people will find just about anything to complain about.

These conflicts are some of the things that create the turbulent seas of negativity.

What strategies do you give to your clients on how to deal with workplace negativity?

There are many things you can do at your company with a little creativity, without spending a lot of time or money to create the positive atmosphere of cooperation and teamwork.  Here’s the secret…  You must create islands of positivity and they will form that safe harbor to keep the negativity out. It’s like creating a barrier reef.

By nature, people think negative thoughts when they don’t make the effort to think positive. Thinking of things that could possibly be bad, is part of the body’s natural way to be aware of danger – so that we can be ready to deal with it.

The good news is that the human brain can’t think both negative and positive at the same time, so when you add positive thoughts and activities, you take time away from negative thoughts. Positive thoughts, ideas, and activities become the islands of positivity in the workplace. The more “islands of positivity” you create, the more positive territory you add to your safe harbor, blocking the negative turbulence.

Employee Spirit Teams
One of the very best ways to get all the employees involved is to create Employee Spirit Teams, and that is what the call center did.  We showed the supervisors at the call center how to create the teams, and the teams took turns creating morale boosters for everyone. The results were amazing.

When I returned the next month, which was October, they had transformed their drab white and gray call center into a haunted house complete with cobwebs, ghosts, spiders, witches and goblins for Halloween. Jill said, “The employees were so excited, and they brought in their own decorations and worked together to create this amazing atmosphere.”  After that, every month they decorated for a different holiday or theme.  Jill then showed me the break room, The teams had posted their banners in there and were having a friendly competition to see which team could plan the most fun morale boosters.

Now, if you are not able to create Spirit Teams, don’t worry. You don’t have to create teams to have an effective morale boosting program. It’s just one of the many ways to get employees involved.  I had advised the supervisors to create morale boosters in 3 important categories.

What are the 3 categories of morale boosters that we should include?
The three categories are actually 3 basic human needs, and that is why they raise employee morale.

1. Social Acceptance – social interaction helps employees feel like they belong to a community.
2. Self-Esteem – is built at work with appreciation and recognition by managers and coworkers.
3. Self-Actualization – Personal and Professional Development helps employees become the best that they can be.

You need activities in all 3 of these areas, but the good news is that many activities overlap and cover more than one category. I’ll cover one category at a time and give you some specific activities you can use.

Employee Morale Category number 1. Social interaction
Social interaction is important because when employees have fun together, and get to know each other better, they work better together.

Here is an activity the call center did that any company could do.
Baby Picture Contest – Jill was so excited when she told me about this one because the employees thought of the idea and planned it themselves.  “They all brought in their baby pictures and posted them on the wall. All week long employees tried to guess who was who. Then, at the end of the week, they had a party and revealed the answers. They had so much fun, and everyone was energized.”

3 Minute Group Huddle – Everyone gathers together for morning inspiration of a poem or short motivating story – such as the Chicken Soup for the Soul stories. This makes everyone feel connected and creates a positive mindset to start the day.

Share Board – This is a large bulletin board put in a prominent place – maybe the break room or hall, where employees can post special things that are going on in their personal life – new baby, anniversary, vacation photos, kids and grand kids, etc.

Creative Casual Days – instead of just dressing in jeans on Fridays as some companies do, you have crazy hat day, ugly tie day, favorite vacation T-shirt day, etc. This doesn’t take a lot of time away from work, but sparks an opportunity for fun interaction among employees.

Lunchtime get-togethers – There are many things you can do at a lunchtime get together that carries out a theme, such as diversity featuring a different country each month, or talking about an event during the month such as National Nutrition Month, etc. That way conversation can be directed in a meaningful way.

There are hundreds of social activities you can do that create social interaction and help people feel part of a workplace community. These ideas are obviously not just for call centers, they work for any company from health care to engineering.

And, when you’re doing these activities throughout the year, be sure to take photos so that at your year-end holiday party you can have a slide show that will be the hit of your party.

Employee Morale Category number 2. Self-esteem

Self-esteem is raised by giving employees appreciation, respect and recognition, by both managers and co-workers.  When you have programs in place for appreciation and recognition, suddenly you have to look for the positive in your employees, in spite of their deficiencies.

Here are 4 ways for Supervisors to appreciate their employees:

1. Thank you letters sent to the employees’ homes so that they can share them with their families. When something is in writing, people can keep it and treasure it.
2. There are all kinds of creative ways to say, “Thank You” to your employees. For example: One supervisor told us she put a note of appreciation on a paper and fit it over a Hershey chocolate bar. The employees loved it.
3. Another supervisor created “Dinner with the Stars“. If a staff member is caught doing something above and beyond, he or she gets a Starbucks gift card for $5. Then… all who received a gift card during the month are treated to a dinner with an administrator the following month.
4. You can have a 10 minute “Spark Plug” Recognition ceremony once a month.
In a few minutes you can award what I call spark plug awards. They are fun awards for doing something special or having a special personal quality.

For example, the Crunch Award goes to the person who helped out when a deadline had to be met. The employee gets a certificate and a Nestles Crunch Bar.

The Sunshine Award – goes to the person who is always smiling. A certificate and a bag of sunflower seeds.

There are many fun awards that don’t take a lot of time to give and don’t cost a lot of money, but that create the sparks that fire up enthusiasm and motivation. And what’s more, everybody loves them.

Coworker appreciation activities are the best ways to encourage employees to cooperate with each other. Here are two easy ideas to get you started.

1. Co-worker Thank You Cards
Here’s an idea from one of our newsletter subscribers who said:  “The best idea we used recently was for co-workers to complete -Thank You cards- for each other.
Each Thank You card is completed in appreciation of a co-worker for any legitimate reason (rides to work, staying late to help with a project, etc.). The cards are put in a box and reviewed by management. The most meaningful and heartfelt -Thank You- is read to the group and the person who wrote the card receives a 1/2 day paid vacation. You could also have a drawing for the people who wrote the cards for another prize.

2. Here’s another that is easy and so effective sent to us by a manager in another company.  We have a dry erase board about 3 foot by 4 foot placed permanently in our office. This board has been a phenomenal team-building tool. It is titled the “Thank You Board.” The instructions are simply – to express your appreciation to any other Team Member or employee in writing on the board. She said, “This has been so popular that I have to erase the thank you notes by date to make room for new ones. Interestingly, we have had this board for over 7 years now, and it continues to be highly used.”
Co-worker appreciation activities work wonders for improving employee relationships because…You’re not going to complain about the person who appreciates you. There are so many creative ways for co-workers to show their appreciation that you can have a different coworker appreciation activity every month.

Employee Morale Category number 3. Self-Actualization
That means continued progress towards becoming not only the best employee you can be but also the best person that you can be.  For example, the call center had a “Word of the Week.”  They covered a long table in the hall with table paper, and chose a word such as kindness, courage, teamwork, etc. They wrote the word in the middle of the paper, and had felt tip marking pens in different colors so that the employees could add their thoughts about the “Word of the Week.” This also gave the employees a chance to read what others have written, and it put the focus on a positive quality that they could develop.

Instead of a table, you could also use index cards where the employees write their thoughts and pin them on a bulletin board.  If you have a weekly meeting, you could take a few minutes for employees to share their thoughts about the word of the week and how that quality could improve their workplace.  Any of these creates one of those “Islands of Positivity” that I spoke of earlier, and it doesn’t cost the company any money.

A Monthly Professional development lesson – on things such as teamwork, communication, time management, positive thinking, etc. at a monthly meeting or training session helps everyone relate the lesson to improving the workplace.

So all of these are examples of activities in the 3 categories of morale boosters, Social Acceptance, Esteem, and Self-Actualization

How often should you do morale boosters?
Boosting morale creates a positive emotional state, it’s important to add that positive energy every day.  And don’t worry about it taking time away from work. It doesn’t have to. It can be in bits and pieces that fit into your daily schedule, like eating an energy bar instead of a full blown meal, the time it takes will be more than made up in reduced negativity and improved productivity.

• So, do something small every day.
• Do other morale boosters every week
• Do meeting energizers and personal development at your weekly or monthly meetings.
• Do a coworker appreciation activity for at least a week during every month
• Add other activities as much as you can fit into your schedule.

Do 2 or more bigger events every year such as a summer family picnic and your holiday party.

Use your judgment. When energy seems low and negativity starts to creep back in, it’s time to add some more “Islands of Positivity” positive activities to maintain your safe harbor from the turbulence of workplace negativity.

How can listeners get more employee morale ideas?

I invite all our listeners to visit my web and sign up for our free employee morale boosters:
1. Employee Morale Assessment so you can rate your company in 7 key areas.
2. List of the Top Ten Morale Boosters that you can start using today to create a positive atmosphere.
3. Weekly newsletter with creative employee morale activities to create your “Islands of Positivity.”
So go to ConfidenceCenter.com –
Enter your name and email into the sign up for our free morale boosters and you will be on your way to a happier, more positive

Want to Use this Article in Your Newsletter or on Your Website?

Of course! You are welcome to print this, and any other articles we send, if you use the following byline:
A recognized expert on Resolving Conflict in the Workplace, Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP is an author, accountability coach, and a Certified Speaking Professional. To book Joyce to speak at your event or company call: 800.713.1926 or email: Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com
Visit her website at JoyceWeiss.com to sign up for your own FREE video series and Communicate with Impact Weekly to Resolve Conflict in the Workplace.

Was this helpful?

Please send me any comments that you may have about this article. Hit the link at the end of this post to share your ideas or questions. Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts to reduce conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is feeling stressed out…who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Business Conflict Resolution Consultant
I help people become top level leaders who get GREAT results.
How do I do this?
I teach them to tackle the tough conversations with bullies and negative people to build employee engagement, accountability, and rock star performance…
The Result? My clients get a better night’s sleep!

Feel free to call me concerning your own team/executive retreats, workshops, on line professional growth coaching, and keynote speeches.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

 

Filed Under: Collaboration Strategies, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improve meetings, Increase Respect in the Workplace, Respect in the Workplace, Team Synergy
Tagged With: employee morale, leadership, Respect in the Workplace

August 24, 2014 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Even Hondas, Volvos & Chevys Can Get Along!

Is your workforce diverse?  diversity
Does everyone get along?
Is there some “we’ versus “they” going on?
Do you want to get all cultures talking to each other?

I’m preparing for a training on Diversity.  My client has communication challenges and he wants to decrease conflict in the workplace.  This blog post will give you some ideas on how to celebrate your diverse workforce.  I’ve even included an exercise that is guaranteed to increase laughter and understanding.

Definition of Diversity
Sharing the collective mixture of similarities and differences among people. It creates an environment that allows all individuals to meet their capabilities and potential without being pushed or pulled.

Today the melting pot is the wrong metaphor in business
Not only is it impossible to melt down the many diverse groups that make up the American workforce, but most individuals are no longer willing to be melted down.
When we feel valued by an organization, we feel a sense of control. We feel more competent in our job and sense of support from those people around us. We feel more productive and a sense of achievement. We can feel more loyal to the organization.

“I don’t like that man. I have to know him better.”
Abraham Lincoln

“In spite of our differences, we are all the same. When we are all stripped of our differences, cultures, languages, race, and our color…we then come face to face with our oneness.”
Dali Lama

Click here to get your own copy of Full Speed Ahead:  Become Driven by Change.  This easy read has exercises to use at your own meetings on communication, stress, diversity, etc. 3d_fullspeedahead_cover_sm

 Diversity Inclusion Exercise

Divide into groups.
List categories of groups at work (men/women, age, race, culture etc.)
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List the ones that you fit in.
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List the ones that you don’t fit in.
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What can the company do to make you and others feel inclusive?

This exercise will bring out issues that your team will be able to resolve.  Make sure that there is a facilitator who can ease any tension that may come out.  Please send me your team’s results after you take this exercise.  You can send me a comment or question since my clients ALWAYS learn new things after using this important strategy.

Want to Use this Article in Your Newsletter or on Your Website?

Of course! You are welcome to print this, and any other articles we send, if you use the following byline:
A recognized expert on Resolving Conflict in the Workplace, Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP is an author, accountability coach, and a Certified Speaking Professional. To book Joyce to speak at your event or company call: 800.713.1926 or email: Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com
Visit her website at www.JoyceWeiss.com to sign up for your own FREE video series and Communicate with Impact Weekly to Resolve Conflict in the Workplace.

Was this helpful?

Please send me any comments that you may have about this article. Hit the link at the end of this post to share your ideas or questions. Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts to reduce conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is feeling stressed out…who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Business Conflict Resolution Consultant
I help people become top level leaders who get GREAT results.
How do I do this?
I teach them to tackle the tough conversations with bullies and negative people to build employee engagement, accountability, and rock star performance…
The Result? My clients get a better night’s sleep!

Feel free to call me concerning your own team/executive retreats, workshops, on line professional growth coaching, and keynote speeches.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS  Click here to get your own copy of Full Speed Ahead:  Become Driven by Change.  This easy read has exercises to use at your own meetings on communication, stress, diversity, etc. 3d_fullspeedahead_cover_sm

 

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