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February 25, 2014 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

The Superhero Supervisor

beth crawfordThis edition of Communicate with Impact Weekly contains an interview that I took with Beth Crawford, The Sales Director at Troy Auto Glass.  I met Beth at a Birmingham Bloomfield Chamber of Commerce meeting.  I was mesmerized when she described all the great things that her leadership does at Troy Auto Glass. Troy Auto Glass is a family owned and operated auto glass replacement service center. It has been in business since 1962. They are approved by all the insurance companies and can help facilitate insurance claims. Beth has been an employee at Troy Auto Glass for 32 years.

Listen to our Interview

You will also find the text of the short interview below.  Enjoy and let me know about your Super Hero Supervisors.

Click here for my article and interview with Rich Sheridan, President of Menlo Innovations on the importance of joy at work

What keeps Beth there?

Every person in the company is responsible for growing the company from the top down. The owners of the company are here every day and work as hard as everyone else. The entire team gives great service to all of their customers. All of the employees have been there for a long time.

What do leaders do to make employees feel special?

The owners support each one of the employees in their own job function making sure that they are able to do their jobs well. It is an easy place to work. They always have a company luncheon and the owners attend the event. When someone is employed for a specific amount of time they are given a gift or something special that they would want themselves. They are always thinking about the best way to make people feel special. Everyone is treated with respect and all employees know that their job is important.

What happens when an employee or colleague makes a mistake?

Conflict does not happen often with the team. Everyone does a great job from the technicians to the office and the team knows their job well. If someone needs training it is given to them in a caring way. People know that everyone makes mistakes and they are treated with respect when mistakes happen. They are trained so that they don’t repeat the same mistake in the future. Everything is so positive at work.

What would Beth tell a new hire about the company culture?

“We would make sure that the new employee understood what their job entailed so they felt comfortable doing their job. We would concentrate on having the person’s personality fit with our office. We spend more time with people that we work with than with our families. I would tell them that if they had a problem speak to their manager right away. We never want to have a situation where either the manager or employee felt unhappy. Happy employees help a company grow.”

What else did Beth want to share with us about the company?

“I am really proud of our company.  We work with customers who have been with us for a long time…even longer than I have been employed at Troy Auto Glass and I have been here for 32 years. We try really hard to give great service to our customers. Every customer has a different situation. Our customers feel the team spirit at our company. We have a lot of competition and customers return because we do more than our competition does with their customers.”

How do you serve the needs of your customers?

“I meet with our customers regularly and ask the following questions:

  • How are we doing?
  • Should we be doing things faster?

Car dealers may tell us that their customers need the vehicle faster or at different hours.  We listen to this feedback.

When I get a new customer I sit down with them and find out what their requirements are and we meet these requirements such as having the job complete before lunchtime. We enter this information in the computer and we know exactly what we need to do. I find out what they need, how they need it, and what their expectations are to satisfy them. We tell them exactly what we can do for them so that they will not be disappointed or feel deprived in any way.”

How can my loyal readers find out more about Troy Auto Glass?

Click here for the website for Troy Auto Glass.      The main phone number is 248.649.3109. Beth Crawford’s direct number is 248.220.1756.

Joyce’s Thoughts

Employee engagement is a topic is very important to me.  Once communication barriers are removed, organizations can then concentrate on making employees HAPPY!  This is not fluff.  This is truly the new work reality.  Please sent me what your leaders do to make your colleagues want to come to work.  I will include a short survey for you to share with your team in upcoming article.  It
will show leaders how people feel about the work place environment.  

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A recognized expert on Resolving Conflict in the Workplace, Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP is an author, accountability coach, and a Certified Speaking Professional. To book Joyce to speak at your event or company call: 800.713.1926 or email: Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com.  Visit her website at www.JoyceWeiss.com to sign up for your own FREE video series on Resolving Conflict in the Workplace. 

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Please send me any comments that you may have about this article. Hit the link at the end of this post to share your comments. Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts to reduce conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is feeling stressed out…who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

 Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help people become top level leaders who get GREAT results.
I teach them to tackle the tough conversations to build employee engagement, accountability, and rock star performance…The Result? My clients get a better night’s sleep!

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Click here for my article and interview with Rich Sheridan, President of Menlo Innovations on the Importance of Joy at Work 

Filed Under: Collaboration Strategies, Conflict in the Workplace, Customer Service, Great Leaders
Tagged With: Customer Service, leadership, Respect in the Workplace

January 14, 2014 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

Inspect Respect: Respect is a 2 Way Street

conflict business man being blamedDo you deal with a workplace bully and want to know how to set boundaries with this person to improve conflict in the workplace?
Did you have an important conversation that changed your life?
This blog post describes a turning point in my life.  I hope that it will unlock your own story.

Why RESPECT is so important to Joyce

I was asked to be a guest on the TV show Impact.  The host – Mike Domitrz, founder of Date Safe Project wanted me to share my story on why “respect” was so important to me both personally and professionally. He found me on line because of my trademark Be Direct with Respect®. I started thinking about what I would say and was at a loss for words…this doesn’t happen often being a conflict resolution consultant and keynote speaker! 🙂

I started asking friends why respect was important to them so I could start thinking of my own reasons.

Watch this 14 minute TV show-Impact (below)  with host Mike Domitrz, founder of Date Safe Project 
which describes a conversation that impacted my life.

Look for a future article on Mike Domitrz about the remarkable messages he gives to schools and military about respect, healthy dating, and sexual assault.

I remembered a turning point in my life which was buried for a long time.

I was 21 and just graduated from college as a teacher. I just moved out on my own. I was a free spirit who was always focused on doing well in school. My parents taught me that hard work and persistence were key ingredients to a successful life. My self-esteem was intact. So I thought!

Then I met Jerry, a talented attorney. After a one year court ship, we were married and that’s when the battles began. Our arguments were like we were in a court room with a judge always present. Jerry was very articulate, and because I was not trained in the art of debate, I was no match. I am a positive person who loves to have fun, and tries to be fair. This situation was not fair, and I didn’t have a clue how to stand up for myself.

After living like this for several months, I started to feel like all my energy had been zapped. It was like the defragmenters in Harry Potter. I started feeling invisible…like I had no voice. I didn’t want to get a divorce, but I knew I couldn’t continue living like this.

I became a woman on a mission to learn all about assertiveness so I could get my husband to behave! One book, The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner really opened my eyes. Dr. Lerner wrote that when one person in a relationship changes the steps of the dance the other person follows. It finally became so clear to me. I was trying to change Jerry and nothing ever changed except my frustration level! I knew that I had to alter the steps of the dance. I was the one who needed to change. I needed to take a risk and have a tough conversation the next time a disagreement came between us.

I can remember the argument that broke this passive pattern.

I was filled with excitement about my decision to go back to school and pursue a career in counseling and coaching. Nothing would stop me now. I thought that Jerry would be as thrilled as I was that I would go back to school and help others resolve their issues on their own.

I couldn’t wait to share my new ideas with Mr. Lawyer. Have you ever been caught off guard when someone reacts in a different way than you thought they would act? Well I was caught off guard…big time when Jerry “told me” that going to school would be a waste of time. He “wanted” me to go into sales since he knew how focused I was and that I was a hard worker.

The old Joyce disappeared during THAT argument. I was calm, took a breath and a huge risk and said, “I am frustrated when I share my excitement about becoming a counselor because my ideas are discounted.” I changed the dance steps! Jerry was surprised with my direct statement. I respected him and was not sarcastic and most importantly I respected myself by standing up for what was important to me.

That one conversation changed our entire relationship.

It took many more books and months of coaching for both of us to change our steps. Now let’s fast forward 47 years. We are still happily married. Of course we disagree, yet we are now equal and there is no winning or losing. When people ask me why I became a conflict resolution consultant …I tell them that I married a lawyer. They laugh and think that I’m joking. You know the rest of my story.

So what about you? Is there a moment in your life when something changed…when you finally spoke up for yourself? We all have our own story. Some of us are still struggling and not getting the respect that we deserve. You have to be the one who changes in order to improve any relationship…not them. What message is speaking to you right now after hearing my story? 

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Please let others know about these ideas on reducing conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is feeling stressed out…who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help people become top level leaders who get GREAT results.
I teach them to tackle the tough conversations to build employee engagement, accountability, and rock star performance.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Read this article on Setting Boundaries with Workplace Bullies to reduce conflict in the workplace and improve communication.

 

 

 

Filed Under: bullying in the workplace, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Increase Respect in the Workplace
Tagged With: bullying in the workplace, how to improve communication skills, Respect in the Workplace

December 5, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Liberate Your Team With These 4 Easy Steps

 cartoon good attitude its free

Thoughts from Joyce

I’ve been meeting many people who share their stories on why they love working at their company…and these are NOT the owners or presidents!
You will experience their stories in future blogs.  Many of you know that I help people take on conflict and resolve it to get better results. 

The other part of the equation is how to feel more engaged at work to resolve conflict in the workplace.  This post will help those of you who want 4 easy ways to start seeing smiles at work again.  Please call me if your team is experiencing hidden agendas, lack of responsibility and accountability because the ideas below will work only after you remove the communication issues. BUT if you have a good team and want to make the environment more positive…enjoy these tips.

How can you make your work environment more enjoyable? Increase motivation? Create an atmosphere where others share new ideas? Working with a team is at times tedious and contentious.  Bring on more cake!

The following ideas are a good starting point to liberate your team:

1. Celebrate small wins (birthdays)

2. Manage the junk pile (What is the most annoying rule we can eliminate?)

3. Appreciate them now (Write thank you notes to 2-3 people each week especially when people take risks, speak well to a customer/member, and handle a tough member.)

4. See windows of opportunity (Organize a team to visit other teams to see how they involve their employees)

 

 Check out this article on 5 Ridiculously Simple Ways to Improve Your Team.

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Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts. Feel free to share this post. Just make sure and give credit to: Joyce Weiss Training & Development LLC > www.JoyceWeiss.com.

Please let others know about these blog posts on reducing conflict at the workplace and home. There may be someone in your life who is feeling stressed out… who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home life.

Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant
I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.
Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS  Check out this article on 5 Ridiculously Simple Ways to Improve Your Team

PPS Please click here for gift ideas for unique inspirational professional growth books.  I will autograph all copies once you send me the names.  Shipping and handling are FREE. 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Communication, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace, Respect in the Workplace, Team Synergy
Tagged With: employee morale, personal development, Respect in the Workplace

September 17, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

5 Ridiculously Simple Ways to Improve Your Team

conflict in meetingYou know those communications…the ones where you just can’t
pay attention or roll your eyes.

Have you ever been on a losing team? What would you have changed
if you were the leader?

Don’t set your team up for failure.
Whether you’re the team leader or a team member,
don’t let the following 5 scenarios happen in your office.

On a Losing Team, People:

1. Do not know what is expected.

2. Do not know how he/she is doing.

3. Cannot do the required skills.

4. Lack organizational support.

5. Have poor relationships.

What Can YOU Do When You See Your Team’s Success Dwindle?

1.  Ask questions and be clear about what is expected from your company, colleagues, and your boss.

2.  Find out how you are doing a few times/year and NOT just during evaluations.

3.  Know what the required skills are for you and others and get training immediately.

4.  Look for another job if there is no support from the top.

5.  You don’t have to like your colleagues.  Let go of old issues if they are getting in the way.
Do your best to change a negative situation into something a bit more manageable in order to
move forward.

Remember…YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

Click here for an article on How to Increase Respect in the Workplace.

Thoughts from Joyce

I know that these 5 ideas sound easy.  They are not always simple to follow.
Please write questions about your own conflict or communication situations at work.
You are not alone.  There is usually a second right answer once you brainstorm with an ally!

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 Until next time…This is Joyce Weiss

Remember…YOU Get What You Tolerate!

Don’t run away from conflict. Resolve it now to get respect back in the workplace.

I help people have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep!

Filed Under: Collaboration Strategies, Communication, Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace, Miscellaneous, Team Synergy
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, resolve conflict and interpersonal issues, Respect in the Workplace

August 22, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Do You REALLY Want to Improve Morale?

photo the office superboss

This is the 2nd post about the gems that I learned from the MI Lean Consortium Conference.
The information for this post comes from an incredible LEAN leader and author, Jamie Flinchbaugh.
Employee engagement helps reduce conflict in the workplace…only when programs are put in place after a lot of planning with the entire team.

 

 

 


 

Employee Engagement Works When…

  • Everyone buys into the program, not just the leader or a few people
  • Leaders become teachers and walk their talk
  • Problems with the program are dealt with immediately

3 Important Ideas That Impact Change

  • Behavior is how we act
  • Action is what we do
  • Results are what we get

Build Tension with Change…NOT Stress

  • What is the current reality?
  • What is the vision of the ideal state?

The gap creates tension.  This will help the team forward.  Now discuss what changes need to be made
to get the results that you ALL want.

How to Build Positive Tension

  • Eliminate fear
  • Eliminate comfort
  • Make sure that there is space for learning and making mistakes

 Joyce’s Opinion on Successful Employee Engagement

Respect is NOT about being nice

“Be Direct with Respect ” is our company trademark that has changed the environment for my clients.
The idea is to give your opinion to anyone in a respectful way.
It takes practice to learn communication skills that work!
The GAP is where people learn new behavior for themselves and others.

Click here to find out how you and your team can take an ON Line Master E-Course
Communicate with Impact.
You will be in touch with Joyce for 2 months while you practice
new skills to get the communication results that you deserve.
Learn how to deal with negativity, bullies, time wasters, and boundaries.
You take the class from the comfort of your own home and the class is personalized to fit your needs.

OK, It’s YOUR Turn!

Please share how your company encourages employees to share their opinion to make positive
change in your company.

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Please send me any comments that you may have on this subject.
Place your comments in the comment box at the end of this post.

Loyal readers like you help us find more people who could benefit from these posts.
Feel free to share these ideas. Just make sure and give credit to:
Joyce Weiss Training & Development LLC > www.JoyceWeiss.com

Please let others know about these ideas on reducing conflict at the workplace and home.
There may be someone in your life who is experiencing some stress…
who could benefit from the inspiration and knowledge on improving their working condition or home
life.

 Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS  Click here to find out how you and your team can take
an ON Line Master E-Course
Communicate with Impact.

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: bullying in the workplace, Collaboration Strategies, Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, employee morale, Respect in the Workplace

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