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May 18, 2014 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

Why Burnout Can be Good for You

I hope that I got your attention with this title. We all know that burnout can be very harmful if we don’t pay attention to our stress levels. We get sick or even chronic illness “suddenly” appear in our life. There are times when burnout can be a positive indication… to listen to your body and most importantly…decide what you NEED to change in your life.

I’m starting Arianna Huffington’s new book, Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating A Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder. She talks about the importance of looking at our life and the time that we actually spend taking care of our needs. I will report back to you after I read it.

In the mean time please look at my short video on “New Facts About Stress.” Click here to view the video. Let me know what speaks to you and how you have learned to take care of yourself after you have burned out. All you have to do is go to the bottom on this blog post and there is a comment section for you to place your words of wisdom.

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Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Business Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help people become top level leaders who get GREAT results.
How do I do this?
I teach them to tackle the tough conversations with bullies and negative people to build employee engagement, accountability, and rock star performance…
The Result? My clients get a better night’s sleep!
The next time you need a consultant for a company retreat or meeting, think of Joyce Weiss Training and Development LLC.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

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September 24, 2013 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

My Mother’s “Bike Story”: Seize Every Opportunity!

Joyce’s Lessons Learned from Her Parents

Our parents and grandparents influenced us in so many ways.
Some of you may have wonderful memories of your youth.
Others may not want to relive those memories.
The question that I ask in my Take the Ride of your Life Workshop is…
How do you live your life because of OR in spite of the lessons learned in your childhood?

My mother Sara and father Joe left a very positive legacy with our family.
I look for opportunities during stress due to the lessons that I learned from my parents.
Any one who knows me, realizes that they better not complain for a long time
without my strong responses on letting go of the small things and changing
what you can in your life! 🙂

I hope that you enjoy another story taken from my book, Take the Ride of Your Life!

Sara’s Bike Story

Sara learned a wonderful lesson the positive way. Her first bike
experience didn’t take place until after she was married my father, Joe.
It made a strong impression. “During the Depression,” she recalls, “none of us
had any money. People made do then. It was a simpler time. I never
had my own bike or a chance to ride one.

“One day, we went to River Rouge for a picnic and saw that there
were bicycles to rent. My husband taught me how to ride. He was so
gentle! I trusted him completely. Before I knew it, I was off and riding.

In a way, this event sums up what I believe: When I want to do something,
I do it, right then and there. I don’t wait or plan for the perfect
time. I seize the opportunity when it’s there.

“Now I’m in my eighties and am an independent widow. I don’t
want to trouble anyone else if I can help it. When the faucet broke, I
went to the hardware store, bought a new one, and replaced the old
one. It gave me a lot of satisfaction.

Although I haven’t been bike riding in a while, I exercise every day.
When I go places with my daughters, I can keep up with them.
I still drive a car, so I still ‘pedal’— even if it’s with one foot.”

My parents did not complain very often, and had no patience with
those who did. Upbeat, non-judgmental, and full of enthusiasm, Sara and Joe
were always ready to learn new things, because every day offered them new
opportunities, despite obstacles.

Joyce’s Questions for You

Sara didn’t learn how to ride a bike until she was married to my father, Joe.
She didn’t have the opportunity until then and when she saw it, she didn’t wait.

1. What are you waiting for?

2. What do you need to do to live a fulfilled life?

3. What lessons did you learn from your parents or grandparents?

Please answer in the comment section towards the end of this blog post.

Click here for an article on “Warning: Use These 6 Tips to Gain Control at Your Own Risk

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Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant

I help others have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

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August 22, 2012 By Joyce Weiss 1 Comment

Is Stress in the Workplace Killing YOU?

I recently received this interesting message from MastersDegreeOnLine.Org who gave me permission to use their image in my blog.

My clients ask me how they can reduce stress at work and gain more control in their life.
This blog post will give you some new facts about stress that may encourage you to see how important it is to take care of YOU!!

YES…even at work. Hey, if you don’t take care of yourself…who will? Got you there, didn’t I? 🙂

Let me know what kind of stress you experience at work.
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YOU GET WHAT YOU TOLERATE! 🙂

July 25, 2012 By Joyce Weiss 2 Comments

Add 26 Days to Your Year: Reduce Conflict in the Workplace

“If only I had more hours in the day.” How many times have you uttered those words?
If you’re like most people, you either think it or say it daily.
The good news is that we all have more time accessible to us.
The bad news is that we often let others steal it from us.

Consider this: International Communications Research in New York surveyed over 1,000 people on how many minutes per day
they are interrupted with things that they don’t want to do.
Over 42 percent of those surveyed admit that they spend 100 minutes or more every day on interruptions.

This breaks down to the following:

100 minutes (1-2/3 hours) per day
11-2/3 hours per week
26 days per year
5 weeks of vacation

While you can’t make up for lost time, you can have more time to do what you want to do – starting today!
The secret is to use Be Direct with Respect® principles.

Here’s how.

When someone asks, “Can I have five minutes of your time?” the natural response is to say,
“Sure,” even though you really don’t have five minutes…and you know those five minutes will grow into 15, 20, or even 30 minutes. A better response is, “Sure, I’d love to help you. Let me call you when I’m done with this project and we can talk then.”
Now you’re still engaging the person, but you’re doing it on your terms and your timeline, not theirs.

When someone tries to start a friendly conversation with you or engage in small talk and you don’t have the time,
the usual response is to stop what you’re doing and talk to the person. After all, you don’t want to be rude.
A better response is, “I’d love to hear more about your grand kids (or your new project, the new clients, etc.),
Right now I have a meeting (or a deadline to meet, a report to finish, a doctor’s appointment, etc.).
So let’s talk about this later today when I’m available.”
Again, it’s just a matter of redirecting the person to your timeline.

When you have a planned one hour meeting with someone and the hour is almost up but the other person shows no intention of leaving or ending the conversation, most people would let the meeting run over, which then disrupts their entire day’s schedule.
A better approach is, “Our time is just about up. Why don’t we use the remaining few minutes to decide when we’ll meet again to complete this discussion.”
At that point the person may suddenly be able to sum up all the key points. And if additional time is needed, now you’re doing it according to your schedule.

Take Back Your Time

Being Direct with Respect® is a skill that enables you to stop interruptions at work and home in order to do the necessary tasks.
It is an art to tell others that you can’t take care of their needs without sounding like a selfish person.
When you’re direct with respect, you can do what you need and want to do and get the respect from others at the same time.

Check out our new Communicate with Impact: Be Direct with Respect ON DEMAND Course.

Click here to Discover how WE can work together to help YOU become a master communicator so that you can add 26 days to your year!

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December 13, 2011 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Stress Facts: Is Your Enthusiasm For Work Flickering Out? Reignite the Flame!

Are your coworkers under so much pressure they’re erupting like volcanoes? Do you see people around you turning into pessimists? Are they waiting for the overwhelming situations to just go away?

Burnout is a general erosion of the spirit. It occurs when its victims have been worn out physically and emotionally as a result of long term stress … However, burnout is also a time for deep reflection to make major changes.
or the overwhelming situations to just go away?

10 TIPS TO KEEP THE FLAME BURNING

It took us a long time to form these negative habits, so it may take some time to make life changing choices. These ideas will take you back to the basics. Find the one idea that “speaks to you” and take some action. Are you ready?

1. Find a hobby.

Talk to people who have achieved balance in their lives and find out what activities they’ve added to enrich their lives. What activities have you wanted to experience? Now is the time to discover them – not when you retire.

2. Take a class for fun in order to add something different to your life.

A benefit from taking a new class is that you will meet people who have the same interests as you. If you are thinking that you don’t have the time, ask yourself…”If not now, then when?”

3. Volunteer for a cause that means something to you.

I hear many success stories of people finding new opportunities after they give their time and attention to others. Studies show that people tend to be happier when they help others.

4. Eat right and exercise.

Do these for the right reasons. Find a nutritionist or health coach who will support you to make behavioral changes that are stopping you from feeling as good as you can. It usually takes only a few sessions.

5. Rest.

I don’t mean hide. Your body may need some extra time to heal. So take the time, just don’t use it as an excuse to stay away from others.

6. Concentrate on what is in front of your nose.

If you’re taking a walk, notice what’s in front of you. If you’re at home, notice the person you’re talking to. Do your best to turn off your self talk about work.

7. Suggest holding team meetings to discuss what everyone in the organization can do together.

Are teams working together or waiting for the stress to go away?

The new norm is doing more with less. Strategize fresh ideas on how the team can work better than ever before.

8. Learn how to be authentic and share your thoughts with others.

This tip is a real burnout buster. People who are straightforward experience less stress. Instead of wasting hours during the night thinking of what you should have said to someone, just do it. Be Direct with Respect® is a skill that is well worth learning!

Look at the my Communicate with Impact! online course to stay connected with Joyce and get great results.

9. Discover the necessity of positive humor at work and at home.

Positive humor lightens the stress of impossible tasks. Humor’s not a luxury in our lives anymore, it’s become a necessity.

10. Discover what values are important to you.

The qualities you consider most significant will have a tremendous impact on your life.

Which ones need immediate attention? Could it be personal solitude, creativity, family, social welfare, freedom, or independence? Balance is the key to re-igniting your energy.

REIGNITE YOUR ENERGY!

Abraham Lincoln said, “People are just about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

Burnout is a time for us to look within ourselves and find what is missing in our lives. With some introspection and change, we can rekindle our vitality and move on to more exciting times. And one last thing… make sure to enjoy the journey!

Check out the link below if you want to go deeper in your own life to gain the control that you deserve.
You will hear Joyce being interviewed on how to gain control and new facts about stress.
Click on this link to discover more information with the Stress Facts podcast

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Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Conflict Resolution Consultant & Accountability Coach