Do you want to find more fulfillment at work or home?
Is there someone who is making your life miserable?
Do you want to improve your quality of life?
Do you want to figure out how to handle stress better in your life?If so…continue reading. If not you may be in denial! 🙂
Conston Taylor from Business Innovators Radio recently interviewed me about the above questions. Conston asked me to share my background and how I became an expert in resolving conflict in the workplace. I shared a time when I was bullied a few months ago and how I handled it.
Enjoy the interview by clicking on the link below.
Business Innovators Radio Interview
Here are a few ideas from the interview.
What are some misconceptions about dealing with conflict?
- I’m too shy and don’t want to tell others what I’m really thinking
- I was brought up to respect elders and “can’t” be honest with my boss
If you are shy, you can continue keeping your thoughts inside or…learn strategies on how other shy people figured out how to have safe conversations and get great results. It is a great concept if your culture teaches you about respecting elders. There are safe exercises to practice which will still respect others while allowing yourself to gain respect and most importantly of all to feel great about yourself.
2 strategies on how to create safe conversations
- Use “I don’t want to…” “I do want to…” For example “I don’t want to create stress between us, I do want to improve our working relationship.” This one idea can bring down walls and get you great results. The main idea is to say this statement calmly and realize that not ALL communications are successful. The more you practice this idea, the better you will be able to create safe conversations.
- Use the GAP by asking yourself how you want to react during a conversation. You can decide not to say anything or express yourself in a confident way. The idea is not to blurt out words without thinking what you want to express. Taking a breath or even stepping back for a day and deciding how you want to proceed will help you find your power.
Main ideas from Joyce’s books
- Full Speed Ahead: Become Driven by Change
You can look at change as stress or an opportunity. Readers can take each chapter and create an entire meeting or mini workshop by using the activities. Your team can discuss the concepts in the chapters. - Take the Ride of Your Life: Shift Gears For More Balance, Growth and Joy
Find answers to your own bike story by finding fulfillment and what you need to do to improve your quality of life. I use a bike metaphor by asking readers to look at who taught them how to ride their first 2 wheel bike without training wheels and how this turning point affects them today. You will read stories that are very inspirational on how others turned negative things around. Plus there are many humorous aspects in each chapter along with cartoons from Schwinn Bicycles. - Communicate with Impact: Be Direct with Respect®
This e-book is part of our new On Line PREMIER Coaching Program. You will receive more details shortly when we launch it to our readers. The ideas will help people express themselves and get the respect that they deserve. It will also help leaders to give cost effective coaching to their managers and directors. Stay tuned!
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Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Communication Strategist and Coach
I share powerful techniques on tackling tough conversations to build employee engagement, accountability, and improve my client’s quality of life.
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