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June 4, 2017 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Three Important Executive Coaching Questions to Ask Yourself

Have you wondered what happens during an Executive Coaching session?
Do you want to move forward in your career?
Are you ready to ask yourself three questions to help you make important decisions in your life?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions you are in the right place.  🙂

My Executive Coaching clients work very hard at improving their career growth and leadership status.  Our conversations on the phone are action packed when they share what worked since our last session and what still needs to be resolved.  Together we focus on specific goals and action plans.  I’m there to hold clients accountable and the results are apparent.  The next few articles will give you a glimpse of how Executive Coaching works.  

Executive Coaching Question #1:  What do you need to change?

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It could be a shorter commute to work or starting a new exercise routine.  Maybe there are conflicts between your direct reports that never seem to get resolved.  The main idea is to ask yourself what parts of your life need changing.  Executive Coaching includes discussing areas in my clients’ life and career.  There are no limitations and most of these topics are connected.  The main idea is to discover the change that needs to be made.

Executive Coaching Question #2:  What do you need to keep?

Family, vacations, exercise, continuing education, or ongoing relationship building are examples of areas in our life that we want and need to keep.  These are parts of our life that are working well.  We need to recognize them in order to appreciate the positives. At times we take them for granted and we need friendly reminders to see the good that is in front of us.

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Executive Coaching Question #3:  What do you need to let go of in order to move forward?

This question isn’t an easy one to resolve.  There are so many issues in our life that we hang on to because they have become our part of our identity.    Examples are unresolved issues with our family, internal fights at work, watching too much TV at night and not reading as much as you want, being realistic that the commute to work is horrific.  You get the idea.  This is where an executive coach comes in handy because we help you discover options that you didn’t see before.  

One of my clients never had time to read when she got home from work.  She had the following routine – visit with her family, eat dinner, and watch two hours of TV before going to bed.  She had several books on her kindle and never had time to read them.  We found the perfect solution.  Instead of watching the news in the morning during her workouts, she watches her TV programs while she exercises at home.  She now has time to read during the evening because she is caught up with some of her favorite programs during her exercise routine.  Easy Peasy.  

Now for some reality

An important part of the process is that clients come up with their own answers once they are asked key questions. It’s like magic.  They thank the coach yet the clients are the ones who come up with the good stuff!  Executive Coaching is extremely rewarding because most clients work with me for a few months or less – depending on how many changes they want to make in their life.

So here is your homework.  Ask yourself these three questions to see where you are in your personal or professional journey.

  1. What do you need to change?
  2. What do you need to keep?
  3. What do you need to let go of?

Stay tuned for more Executive Coaching articles and videos coming to your email soon.

I want to hear from you

Send me your questions or comments about your own Executive Coaching experience.
I always offer a FREE 30-minute mini session to discover if Executive and Career Coaching is right for you or your direct reports. 

Send me an email or call me at 800.713.1926 to set up our time together

 

This is Joyce Weiss, Executive and Career Coach

Learn how I can leverage my 30+ years of leadership consulting and coaching experience to help your organization address executive coaching strategies here.

Until next time, Remember…”You Get What You Tolerate!”

 

Filed Under: Career Development, Coaching as a Leader, Continuous Improvement, Dealing with Change
Tagged With: career development, personal development

May 28, 2017 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Dr. Seuss Quote: Be Who You Are and Say What You Feel

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind!
Dr. Seuss

#DrSeuss
#Beyourself
#Motivationalquote

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Filed Under: Communication Skills, favorite quote, favorite quotes
Tagged With: effective communication, personal development

March 19, 2017 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Secrets from an Executive Coach to Advance Your Career

As an Executive Coach, my clients ask me to address strategies on how to get promoted or get noticed in their company.

  • Are you ready to ask for a promotion?
  • Do you see others advancing in your company?
  • Are leaders listening to your suggestions?

There is a saying that I use quite a bit, “If you don’t toot your own horn, who will?”  I realize that there’s a fine line between being a braggart and being assertive.  I’m not asking you to put your ego on steroids! 🙂  The strategies in this article will take you on your own career path. They are discussions this Executive Coach has during accountability sessions.

If eighty-hour workweeks and impending layoffs are leaving you apprehensive about your career decision, you’re not alone. These days, countless professionals are yearning for more fulfilling careers.

Unfortunately, many professionals are going to their day-to-day work activities and feeling as if they’re pedaling a bicycle uphill in the wrong gear.

They secretly yearn for the feelings of freedom and self-reliance they used to have when they were children pedaling away on their very own Schwinn or Huffy.

How can we recapture those childhood feelings of independence, adventure, and joy?

Executive Coach Secret #1: Safely navigate work’s potholes, ruts, curbs, obstacles, and challenges.

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In order to excel professionally, you need the ability to learn from any past mistakes rather than dwell on them.

The truth is that the only wrong mistake is one we don’t learn from – when things go wrong, we have a choice. We can criticize ourselves and curse our own bad luck, or we can coach ourselves, extract value from what we learned, and focus on how we can handle that situation better in the future.

The next time something devastating happens to you, whether it’s a layoff or a failed project, remember there are lessons to be learned.  Believe me, I know what I’m talking about and remind myself of this strategy numerous times!

Executive Coach Secret #2: Take the direct route.

Many people are so confused about expectations at work.  They need to ask specific questions to receive clarity as to their job specifications.  It’s during these times that people need to use straight talk to solve issues.

Being Direct with Respect® means being able to communicate openly and honestly without hurt feelings. Encourage Be Direct with Respect® in your office by thinking about what you really want to say, writing it down, and practicing it.

The more you use it, the more comfortable you’ll feel, and the more your colleagues will follow your lead.

Executive Coach Secret #3: Stay balanced when the road is bumpy.

The majority of people are running on empty.

If your workday feels out of balance, the quickest way to identify what is missing is to know your core values.  What’s holding you back from achieving balance in your day? Can you say no to the things that aren’t consistent with your core values?

When you ignore your personal values for the sake of others, keeping balanced is a challenging ordeal.

To gain balance, you first must be true to yourself. When you can gear down, relax, and enjoy the flowers on the side of the road, you will finally see the right path.  You will find answers and become more focused when you think about what you want to do with your life and not concentrate on the negative parts of your career.

Executive Coach Secret #4: Stop pedaling in circles.

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How long has it been since you’ve tried something new and different in your work?

After evaluating yourself personally, ask people you trust to make suggestions on how you need to grow.

Use their advice to guide your education decisions. Do you need to take a computer class, a writing course, find an Executive Coach, or attend advanced leadership workshops?

To carve a new career or enhance your current one, you must take responsibility for your own future and learn new skills on a daily basis.  It doesn’t help when we stay in the status quo and don’t move forward.

 

Final Thoughts from Joyce

Your ability to safely navigate workday obstacles, use straight talk, stay balanced, and keep learning will help you recapture the feelings of your youth – when your bike was your ticket to exhilaration.

You’re the one in control! Sometimes the journey will be easy coasting, while other times it will be an uphill bumpy trek.

Either way, it’s up to you to shift your professional life in gear and create your own career path.

I want to hear from you

Send me your questions or comments on what is and what is not working with your career advancement. What are the strategies that work for you?

Do you want to see how your communication skills are impacting your career?  
Take our FREE Communication Skills at Work Assessment HERE.  I will send you a personalized evaluation.

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Feel free to send me a private email if you have questions about your own career advancement.  I am here to support my loyal readers to improve their working condition.

 This is Joyce Weiss, Communications Strategist and Coach

Learn how I can leverage my 30+ years of communication and leadership consulting and coaching experience to help your organization address executive coaching strategies here.

Until next time, Remember…”You Get What You Tolerate!”

 

 

Filed Under: Career Development, Continuous Improvement, Professional Development
Tagged With: personal accountability, personal development

January 29, 2017 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Bullying Strategies Video to Improve Personal Relationships

Bullying Strategies is a topic that my clients constantly ask me to speak about to improve morale.  Sure bullies exist in the workplace.  My question is do you deal with a bully who happens to be your friend or relative?  If so the video and article below will give you 5 strategies to help you gain more control. You will learn how to deal with a bully who may be in your personal life.  Are you ready for 5 strategies to help you gain back control and most importantly…your respect?  These strategies will support you especially when there are disagreements about politics.

Bullying  Strategies #1:  Make the conversation safe

Start out the conversation with the bully by using “I don’t want to…I do want to…”
“I don’t want to create stress between us.
I do want to have an open and honest conversation with you.”

Bullying Strategies #2:  Use the power talk formula

“I was upset at the party when I was attacked in a critical tone of voice because I was sharing my opinion.  I was pushed and became defensive.  I was caught off guard and thought about what happened later on in the evening.  Friends don’t judge friends.  We all disagree at times and that’s what makes our relationships stronger.”

Bullying Strategies #3:  Be specific describing the bullying behavior

At times people are not aware when they roll their eyes or sound judgmental.  There are times when they know exactly how they are acting! This is the time in the conversation that you give details on the bullying behavior that caused you to become defensive.

Bullying Strategies #4:  If necessary talk about blind spots

If the person denies his or her actions, this is the time for you to talk about blind spots.  Tread carefully with this strategy.  This is an advanced coaching skill that can either bring you success or failure depending on how you spin this part of the discussion.  It’s a great tool to use when the other person is open to your feedback.  Don’t use this when he or she comes defensive and starts closing down.

I feel it’s worth the risk because this is when you can go deeper into the conversation.

Bullying Strategies #5:  Try to remember that it’s usually a weakness of the bully when he or she attacks

It usually has nothing to do with the target.  You can even ask the bully if he or she is ok since you have never experienced this behavior in the past from this person.  This will take the focus off of you.  The bully may open up or not.  The main idea is that you expressed your concern and stood up for yourself.

Thoughts from Joyce

Many of my clients share that they experience bullies more and more these days.  The good news is that there are many great books and resources on bullying.  Don’t let the bully harass you.  Set the stage immediately that the conversation will be safe, use be direct with respect®, be as detailed as possible to make your feedback clear, discuss blind spots if necessary, and remember that You Get What You Tolerate!

I want to hear from you!
CLICK HERE to send me your questions about bullies in your personal life.  Please share how you have resolved these issues.  

Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss, Communication Strategist and Coach
I look forward to helping my clients resolve their communication issues either at home or work.  The result is that they stop thinking about the stress at night and get a better night’s sleep! 🙂

READ HERE If you want to find out how about my services so I can help you or your team deal with bullies.

PS  Do you want to read previous articles on Bullying Strategies?
Read more Top Tips on Bullying in the Workplace and Home

Filed Under: Bullying videos, Internal stress, Personal Development
Tagged With: bullying at home or with friends, personal development

December 11, 2016 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Secrets from a Life Coach to Encourage Work-Life Balance

Do you want to learn 5 secrets from me, your personal life coach to encourage life balance at work?  If so, see if you can relate to these 3 questions.

  • Does your team complain that they have no time for themselves?
  • Is negativity starting to become part of your culture?
  • Is your team walking around like zombies because they are sleep deprived?

We all know that when there is a supportive work atmosphere, the team will be more productive.  Leadership needs to address life balance more so than ever before.  Millennials, Generation X and Baby Boomers all share the same need to make time for themselves after work. This is the new normal.  Companies that address these concerns will become the best and brightest places to work for in their industry.  But what can you do? Try these 5 secrets:

Life Coach Secret #1: Survey people to learn their needs.

Develop a work-life committee to gather information on which flexibility needs your coworkers want and report the findings. Whether they’re dealing with eldercare, childcare or continuing education, you can help give management a better grasp on what the team needs.

Life Coach Secret #2: Take suggestions under advisement.

When people’s personal needs are met, they’re able to concentrate better and be more efficient. Start by asking for one reasonable request – for example, staggering the start and end of workdays. After the company familiarizes itself with flexible schedules, tackle a new need.

Life Coach Secret #3: Make sure desires match positions.

People need to be happy with their work. Do you know someone in accounting who would rather be doing more creative work? Encourage him or her to try a project in that department! The entire company will benefit by having a happier and more productive individual.

Life Coach Secret #4: Recognize signs of burnout.

Do you work with someone who always seems tired, overreacts to minor problems, and has diminishing productivity? Gently broach the subject. He or she may need to schedule a vacation or may need to switch jobs.

Life Coach Secret # 5: Set a good example.

If you occasionally need to take time out of your workday to attend to personal obligations, don’t hide it – you’re actually setting a good example! There will always be projects that compete for your time.  Realize that some personal obligations need to take priority. When your work environment allows people to accomplish both their personal and professional goals, you’ll be rewarded with loyal, happy employees and coworkers … and increased productivity. Start setting yourself apart from the competition today!

I want to hear from you!
CLICK HERE to send me your questions about your work life issues at work.  What does your company do to ensure that employees feel balanced at home while being productive at work?

Until next time,

This is Joyce Weiss, Communication Strategist and Coach

You can gain control in your own life after working with me as your personal life coach.  I will do whatever it takes to help you improve your quality of life.

Feel free to call me (800.713.1926) concerning your own team or professional growth coaching.

Remember…You Get What YOU Tolerate!

See YOU Next Week.

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“Terrific stuff Joyce! You are an endless source of Practical ideas and great inspiration for getting everyone involved in turning around potentially negative situations.  The bicycle analogy is something we can all relate to in our own life.  It is truly an inspiring message.” Bill Zehnder, President, Bavarian Inn Restaurant, Frankenmuth, MI  

 

 

 

Filed Under: Articles on Stress, Work Life Balance Articles
Tagged With: employee morale, personal development, work life balance, work stress

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