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May 1, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

The Job Dilemma

I read a very interesting blog post written by Tom Stanfield, a colleague of mine and wanted to share his wisdom with you.
It pertains to MI yet others will find interesting ideas on hiring quality people.  I find that many of my clients need bodies to fill positions because things change so quickly.  This causes conflict in the workplace because expectations are not met.  Employees tell me that they are confused because they were hired to work in one position and the next week they are moved into another role because the company is changing so quickly.

This is nothing new.  This Job Dilemma can be solved when leaders know where to find quality people and how to be transparent on what is expected both from the company and employee.

I’m asked the following question from leaders:  What is accountability coaching?  They usually ask the question when they are exploring the possibility of getting help from a trained consultant to improve communication and improve the flow of the company.
Click here to read my blog post to find out how accountability coaching can help your organization

Enjoy Tom’s article!

M Live Article: The Jobs Dilemma

I read an article by Melissa Anders from M Live The headline is “The Jobs Dilemma”. I must say it was a great job of reporting differing opinions without trying to drive the readers to her conclusion. Nice job Melissa Anders.

There are two sub-headlines. “If Michigan graduates so many skilled students, why can’t they find work here?” and “Online job screening: Are companies missing talented applicants?” I have never had a full-page in any newspaper fall so strongly on my greatest passion; the Talent Management of Michigan Organizations.

There were many facts stated like the mismatch between available jobs and available talent, there are thousands of unfilled jobs on-line but employers say they have a hard time finding qualified candidates, some say the wages offered are too low, some say employers’ expectations are too high, etc.

The scariest statement to me was from Doug Rothwell, President and CEO of Business Leaders of Michigan. He said, “By 2018 Michigan will need to fill 1.3 million jobs, 836,000 of those requiring post-secondary education or training. At current rates we will fall hundreds of thousands short”.

This “battle” for our State’s economy is like the battle the medical world has with cancer. We all want to conquer it, but “it” has “multiple faces” in the overview and a “singular face” with any one individual patient. I have personally learned that when dealing with health issues at the individual level, the patient needs a “patient advocate”. The patient in the “stress of battle” needs an advocate that is intimately involved with the patient but not living in the day-to-day stress of the issue. An “advocate” can help guide the patient’s decisions because they know their needs and desires deeply and are with the patient while consulting with the doctor. They are able to bring observations to both the patient and the doctor.

In my career I was given the opportunity to be the “patient advocate” for the Owner/Operator of a manufacturing company in Grand Rapids. My job was People Development Director. My responsibility was to ensure we had a well qualified, well-trained workforce available to accomplish the corporate goals in the present and into the future. I was an employee of the company, but did not have day-to-day product responsibilities that would distract my focus from Talent Management.

I believe every organization needs someone at the leadership level “driving the Talent Management bus”. If our people are our greatest resource, we need someone that has the understanding of the organizational goals and directions; someone that can project the needs 5, 10 or more years down the road. Someone that can connect to the right sources of the talent the organization will need for the future; an advocate for the entity that cannot speak for itself; the organization.

You would not put an ad on-line for your material inventory needs. Can you imagine an ad that said, “Needed 100,000# of tube stock. Anyone interested in supplying this product please call 616-123-4567”? I don’t believe you would go to Angie’s List to find an electrician to solve a major problem in your facility. Sourcing is the key to controlling the quality of any resource. We need an “advocate” to ensure we connect to the right “doctor”.

Let’s take a tip from the Corrective Action process a lot of organizations use.

1. Define your specific problem or problems. If you have more than one, separate the issues. You cannot solve a generic problem. If you are having trouble finding candidates, define what candidates. Are they Engineers? Are they Welders? Are they Nurses? You cannot solve all of them with the same solution.

2. Determine the right team to work on the problem. If you do not have the right resources in-house, “rent” them. If you were going to build a new building would you use just your staff or would you bring in contractors where needed? Your key people, along with needed outside “experts”, make a great problem solving team.

3. Determine the Root Cause of the problem, not the symptoms. Get to the Root Cause. If you can’t find the right candidates it might be a sourcing issue, or it might be your method of searching for candidates, or it might be your pay scale, etc. If you don’t find the Root Cause of the problem you cannot solve it.

4. Determine Interim Corrective Action. Determine how you can quickly control the problem. This usually means spending a little extra money, but it “stops the bleeding”.

5. Determine Permanent Corrective Action. Once you have “stopped the bleeding” determine the best method of control for the future and get your costs back in line.

I believe we need to get this conversation out of generic statements and into organizational specific statements. After all, how do you eat an elephant?

Who is Tom Stanfield?

Entrepreneurial Business Leader and Business Coach with 40+ years of management experience in automotive tier 1, automotive tier 2 and flat rolled steel processing that supplied the automotive industry; the office furniture industry and the farm implement industry. Proven vision and ability to establish a business culture that focuses on core values and achieve results. Team builder that has learned to harness the natural “flow” of talent in an organization and channel it to create stability and an upward movement of talent while focusing on the bottom line.

Thanks to Tom for giving me permission to share his article with my loyal readers.
Read more of Tom’s articles on his blog

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Thanks for reading and remember…
YOU get what YOU tolerate!

PS
Check out this link on how Joyce can help your company reduce conflict in the workplace.
Find out how accountability coaching could be a key to your company’s success!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Individual and Team Coaching, Leadership Consulting
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, Leadership Consulting, personal development

April 11, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

You Have to Listen to This!

conflict cave can u get along

How would you like to  find time to do the things that you want to do with more energy?

I teach people to have TOUGH conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.
Many of my clients tell me that they wake up in the middle of the night trying to figure out what to say to a boss, co-worker, or a negative person in their personal or professional life.

This blog post will give you a few tips so you can be direct, gain control and stop wasting time trying to figure out what to say to that person!

Joyce is interviewed for The Leading Edge radio show by Debra Levantrosser

Listen to this 7 minute radio show (The Leaning Edge) where Debra Levantrosser  interviewed me on this very subject.

Debra is the Founder of The MI Lean Consortium (MLC).
MLC was founded in 2008 by a group of forward-thinking individuals who firmly believed that if every MI organization
used lean principles, the state’s economy would rebound.
Debra Levantrosser is a leading international professional in the areas of productivity improvement, alignment and change, and facilitation and planning.
She is also the founder of Arbed Solutions which helps business grow and develop the next generation of leaders.
She interviews key players who use the LEAN concepts to reduce waste at their work.

Click here to listen to the radio show & learn how to gain control during those tough conversations

4 DON’TS in Using Constructive Feedback

Okay, you’ve worked on staying calm when others give you constructive feedback.

When people give constructive feedback, they do it to influence future behavior – not to change the past.
Though it may be difficult to hear, try to listen … and:

1. Don’t defend yourself.

2. Don’t deny responsibility.

3. Don’t counter attack.

4. Don’t withdraw.

Click here to listen to the radio show & learn how to gain control during tough conversations

 

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Find out more about The MI Lean Consortium by clicking here.

Until next time, this is Joyce Weiss
and REMEMBER…YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

 

Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, constructive feedback, how to improve communication skills, resolve conflict and interpersonal issues

April 2, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Tips to Create a Winning Team

conflict 2 ppl arguing

Do you ever wonder why your team is not as productive and positive as you want it to be?
Do you want to resolve conflict in the workplace by changing things around?

If so, you are in the right place!
My clients ask me to help them deal with tough situations at work.
They know that this is the only way to make change…facing it head on.

Their challenge is that they don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings or make things worse.
They know how to have those tough conversations and move forward after they learn the techniques that I’ve already shared with you in other blog posts such as:

  • Be Direct with Respect
  • Verbal Aikido
  •  The Gap

Read this post on how to handle tough conversations
Send me any questions that you may have to improve your working condition.

 Reasons Why Team Synergy WON’T Work

Have you ever wondered why your team doesn’t work as well as it can? Does your team…

  •  Believe it is already there?
  •  Continue to use group think?
  •  Allow negative team members to zap the team’s morale?
  •  Know the expectations and roles of others?

If so, discuss the possible reasons to remove obstacles.

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Until Next Time…This is Joyce Weiss
and Remember…YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

P.S.  Click here for more information on how to deal with tough conversations

 

 

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March 12, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Confused About Constructive Feedback?

Lost and Confused Signpost

Okay, you’re getting more in control with your team communication.

Do you know that constructive feedback is a gift that you give to people you truly care about?

This statement is hard for some people to grasp.

 

 

 

 

Think about a time when someone gave you feedback in a constructive way.

What did you learn from this experience? How can you use that knowledge to help your team?

Click here for more information on how to Increase Respect in the Workplace!’

 

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Until next time,
This is Joyce Weiss
and Remember
…“YOU Get What YOU tolerate!”

 

 

Filed Under: Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace
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March 5, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

5 Ways to Share Constructive Feedback Successfully

 

conflict 2 ppl shouting holding targetAre there team issues that need to be resolved?

Hopefully your team doesn’t resolve conflict in the workplace like these 2 people in the photo!

Remember, I encourage and support people to have tough conversations so they sleep better at night.
One of the ways I do this is by sharing the tips that are in this blog post.
If you want more information on any of these tips feel free to ask in the comment section below
or email me at Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com

When you’re communicating with others in a stressful setting, focus on these 5 tips:

1.  All criticism is valid from the critic’s perspective.  Ask yourself what that person sees that you many not.

2.  Disregard the judgmental aspects of a criticism and address what can be beneficial to you.

3.  Keep your mind open to all viewpoints.

4.  Adopt an attitude that says, “I want to know if I have blind spots that I may not see about myself.”

5.  Avoid taking a defensive position when criticism is leveled at you.

 Click here to watch my short video on “Dealing with Negativity in the Workplace”

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Until next time
This is Joyce Weiss and REMEMBER…”You Get What YOU Tolerate!”

Filed Under: Conflict in the Workplace, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Increase Respect in the Workplace, Respect in the Workplace
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