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June 18, 2013 By Joyce Weiss 1 Comment

Joyce’s Recommendation of a GREAT Book

question marksI just read a very powerful and interesting book that blew me away!

The ideas will help reduce conflict in the workplace and immediately improve morale.

You don’t need to be a leader to read this book.

Check out the book only if  you want to think about the importance of WHY you do the things you do and the impact on your future .

Simon Sinek has a simple but powerful model for inspirational leadership all starting with a golden circle and the question “Why?”
His examples include Apple, Martin Luther King, and the Wright brothers.

In 2009, Simon Sinek released the book “Start With Why” — a synopsis of the theory he has begun using to teach others how to become effective leaders and inspire change.

Check out this link to my podcast on “Bold Solutions to Boost the Bottom Line.”

 

 Here are some key points that “spoke” to me.

  •  People don’t buy WHAT you do but WHY you do it.
  • WHY is a belief that is consistent with your values.
  • Trust emerges when another person or company is driven by things other than their own self gain.
  • When you share the same values with others you will earn their trust.
  • The role of a great leader is to create an environment where great ideas can happen.
    Steve Jobs did not come up with the ideas for the ipod…others in the company did.
  • Great leaders serve those who serve them.
    Costko takes care of their employees and the results are reciprocal.

 My WHY is that I get to inspire others to do things to make their life a bit easier.

I help people have tough conversations so they get a better night’s sleep.

Once I became clear on my WHY it is so much easier to connect with people who want what I offer to them.

Here is a direct quote from Start with Why

“If you believe what we believe and you believe that the things we do can help you, then we are better.
Our goal is to find clients who believe what we believe and work together so that we can all succeed.
We’re looking for people to stand shoulder to shoulder with us in pursuit of the same goal”

 As some of you know I have launched a new FREE communicate with impact assessment which includes a 15 minute phone evaluation. I decided to do this to introduce the new on Demand E-Course, Communicate with Impact. I realize that not every client will be interested in the assessment or course. This is a good thing. I also realize that the clients who see the value for their professional growth and their team will take the assessment and tell others about the E-Course.

Click here if you want to take the FREE Communication Assessment.
Once you take it, we can set up a time for a 15 minute phone evaluation where you will get a personalized action plan.

 

I have a few of questions for you…

  • Are you very specific on the reasons why you do what you do?
  • Do you communicate your WHY to your clients or prospects?
  • Do you market to the right clients?

Feel free to send me your answers to these questions.

I will respond and give you some ideas on how you can become as specific as possible.

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This is Joyce Weiss

and Remember…You GET with YOU tolerate!

PS
Remember…Check out this link to my podcast on “Bold Solutions to Boost the Bottom Line.”

 

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Filed Under: Assessment Tools, Communication, Conflict in the Workplace, Continuous Improvement, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Life Coaching Books
Tagged With: improving communication skills, Leadership Consulting, personal development

May 1, 2013 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

The Job Dilemma

I read a very interesting blog post written by Tom Stanfield, a colleague of mine and wanted to share his wisdom with you.
It pertains to MI yet others will find interesting ideas on hiring quality people.  I find that many of my clients need bodies to fill positions because things change so quickly.  This causes conflict in the workplace because expectations are not met.  Employees tell me that they are confused because they were hired to work in one position and the next week they are moved into another role because the company is changing so quickly.

This is nothing new.  This Job Dilemma can be solved when leaders know where to find quality people and how to be transparent on what is expected both from the company and employee.

I’m asked the following question from leaders:  What is accountability coaching?  They usually ask the question when they are exploring the possibility of getting help from a trained consultant to improve communication and improve the flow of the company.
Click here to read my blog post to find out how accountability coaching can help your organization

Enjoy Tom’s article!

M Live Article: The Jobs Dilemma

I read an article by Melissa Anders from M Live The headline is “The Jobs Dilemma”. I must say it was a great job of reporting differing opinions without trying to drive the readers to her conclusion. Nice job Melissa Anders.

There are two sub-headlines. “If Michigan graduates so many skilled students, why can’t they find work here?” and “Online job screening: Are companies missing talented applicants?” I have never had a full-page in any newspaper fall so strongly on my greatest passion; the Talent Management of Michigan Organizations.

There were many facts stated like the mismatch between available jobs and available talent, there are thousands of unfilled jobs on-line but employers say they have a hard time finding qualified candidates, some say the wages offered are too low, some say employers’ expectations are too high, etc.

The scariest statement to me was from Doug Rothwell, President and CEO of Business Leaders of Michigan. He said, “By 2018 Michigan will need to fill 1.3 million jobs, 836,000 of those requiring post-secondary education or training. At current rates we will fall hundreds of thousands short”.

This “battle” for our State’s economy is like the battle the medical world has with cancer. We all want to conquer it, but “it” has “multiple faces” in the overview and a “singular face” with any one individual patient. I have personally learned that when dealing with health issues at the individual level, the patient needs a “patient advocate”. The patient in the “stress of battle” needs an advocate that is intimately involved with the patient but not living in the day-to-day stress of the issue. An “advocate” can help guide the patient’s decisions because they know their needs and desires deeply and are with the patient while consulting with the doctor. They are able to bring observations to both the patient and the doctor.

In my career I was given the opportunity to be the “patient advocate” for the Owner/Operator of a manufacturing company in Grand Rapids. My job was People Development Director. My responsibility was to ensure we had a well qualified, well-trained workforce available to accomplish the corporate goals in the present and into the future. I was an employee of the company, but did not have day-to-day product responsibilities that would distract my focus from Talent Management.

I believe every organization needs someone at the leadership level “driving the Talent Management bus”. If our people are our greatest resource, we need someone that has the understanding of the organizational goals and directions; someone that can project the needs 5, 10 or more years down the road. Someone that can connect to the right sources of the talent the organization will need for the future; an advocate for the entity that cannot speak for itself; the organization.

You would not put an ad on-line for your material inventory needs. Can you imagine an ad that said, “Needed 100,000# of tube stock. Anyone interested in supplying this product please call 616-123-4567”? I don’t believe you would go to Angie’s List to find an electrician to solve a major problem in your facility. Sourcing is the key to controlling the quality of any resource. We need an “advocate” to ensure we connect to the right “doctor”.

Let’s take a tip from the Corrective Action process a lot of organizations use.

1. Define your specific problem or problems. If you have more than one, separate the issues. You cannot solve a generic problem. If you are having trouble finding candidates, define what candidates. Are they Engineers? Are they Welders? Are they Nurses? You cannot solve all of them with the same solution.

2. Determine the right team to work on the problem. If you do not have the right resources in-house, “rent” them. If you were going to build a new building would you use just your staff or would you bring in contractors where needed? Your key people, along with needed outside “experts”, make a great problem solving team.

3. Determine the Root Cause of the problem, not the symptoms. Get to the Root Cause. If you can’t find the right candidates it might be a sourcing issue, or it might be your method of searching for candidates, or it might be your pay scale, etc. If you don’t find the Root Cause of the problem you cannot solve it.

4. Determine Interim Corrective Action. Determine how you can quickly control the problem. This usually means spending a little extra money, but it “stops the bleeding”.

5. Determine Permanent Corrective Action. Once you have “stopped the bleeding” determine the best method of control for the future and get your costs back in line.

I believe we need to get this conversation out of generic statements and into organizational specific statements. After all, how do you eat an elephant?

Who is Tom Stanfield?

Entrepreneurial Business Leader and Business Coach with 40+ years of management experience in automotive tier 1, automotive tier 2 and flat rolled steel processing that supplied the automotive industry; the office furniture industry and the farm implement industry. Proven vision and ability to establish a business culture that focuses on core values and achieve results. Team builder that has learned to harness the natural “flow” of talent in an organization and channel it to create stability and an upward movement of talent while focusing on the bottom line.

Thanks to Tom for giving me permission to share his article with my loyal readers.
Read more of Tom’s articles on his blog

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Thanks for reading and remember…
YOU get what YOU tolerate!

PS
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Find out how accountability coaching could be a key to your company’s success!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Conflict and Resolution Specialist, Great Leaders, How to Improve Communication in the Workplace, Improving Communication, Individual and Team Coaching, Leadership Consulting
Tagged With: how to improve communication skills, Leadership Consulting, personal development

October 8, 2011 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Do You Want to Develop Respect in the Workplace?

Have you experienced both strong and weak team leaders?
How can you develop into a more effective leader or team member?
Do you want to bring confidence back to your team?

If so…read on!

This blog post will help reduce conflict in the w0rkplace.  You will find tips on how to make leaders strong and effective.
You will also read a survey on how employer confidence is increasing.

Strong leaders get great results when they:

  • Live in the field
  • Set the tone for the team
  • First feed the troops, then feed the officers
  • Always lead by example
  • Never ask anyone to do something they wouldn’t want to do
  • Share good news with the team as often as possible

Make sure and share these few tips with your team.
My audience participants discuss that they will add the above tips to their leadership skills when they get promoted.
Some of them  don’t see their leaders as part of the team and this is detrimental to team morale.

Check out more ideas on how to reduce stress in the workplace & add respect in this blog post:

https://www.joyceweiss.com/wp/2011/07/12/how-to-increase-respect-in-the-workplace-and-reduce-stress/

The next part of the blog post will help you see how employer confidence is increasing.

Cicero said, ” Where there is life, there is hope.”

Express Professionals in Grand Rapids MI has become a new partner of mine.

I will be sharing surveys and reports that they do so well on trends in the workplace.

Check out this post on how employer confidence is increasing.

Express Hiring Trends Survey Sees Employer Confidence Increasing

Grand Rapids, MI, September, 2011 —Nearly half (42 percent) of company leaders have either recently implemented or plan to implement bringing in new staff (temporary or full-time) in the third quarter, according to a national hiring trends survey conducted by Express Employment Professionals, one of the nation’s largest privately-held staffing companies.

“We’re seeing employers’ confidence levels increase slightly,” said Grand Rapids franchise owner Janis Petrini. “Not only do they plan to hire new employees, but some are also considering reinstating previous pay and/or raises and lifting hiring freezes.”

Express surveyed more than 17,000 current and former clients across the United States and Canada. Survey results of those who responded indicate that 67 percent of companies plan to hire one to three people across all business sectors during the third quarter. Hiring trends in all regions continues to be greatest in administrative and office clerical, with 30 percent of respondents planning new hires, while 26 percent of commercial/light industrial businesses anticipate adding new staff. Additionally, 22 percent of respondents plan to fill positions in “other” sectors which include clinical/healthcare, customer service, food service, general labor, maintenance, medical/dental/nursing, sales and more.

While companies are planning new hires, the current ease of recruiting and filling positions is down, according to the survey. In fact, half of the respondents believe it is “somewhat difficult” to “very difficult” to recruit and fill positions, an increase of six percent compared to the previous quarter. Staffing firms, employee referrals and online job boards remain the top three recruiting resources for companies. When considering new hires, employers are looking closely at credible work history, job experience and specific skills.

“Recruiting is clearly becoming more difficult for company leaders,” said Petrini. “There is a huge volume of talented candidates on the market and it’s a real challenge to find not only the most experienced person, but the best overall fit for the position and the company.”

The Grand Rapids Express Employment Professionals franchise began operation in 1996 and serves the Grand Rapids and surrounding areas with temporary help and direct hire employees in a variety of fields, including warehouse, skilled manufacturing, administrative, and professional.

Worldwide, Express Employment Professionals puts nearly 300,000 people to work each year and has over 550 offices in four countries. Express provides expertise in evaluation hire, temporary staffing, professional search and human resources and works across a wide variety of industries. Sales for the Oklahoma City-based company totaled more than $1.9 billion in 2010.

The Grand Rapids office, located at 333-44th St. SW is currently accepting applications for a variety of positions. For more information, call 616-281-0611 or visit www.expresspros.com.

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I hope that you enjoyed reading this trend on how employer confidence is improving.
Thanks to Janis Petrini – Franchise Owner, Casey Jankoska-Client Relations Manager, and Jocelyn Hodack-Human Resource
Consultant for all the innovative projects that they are doing to help people grow in their careers!

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Remember, YOU GET WHAT YOU TOLERATE!

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Conflict in the Workplace Consultant & Accountability Coach

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Increase Respect in the Workplace, Leadership Consulting
Tagged With: conflict in the workplace, Leadership Consulting, personal development, Respect in the Workplace, team building

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