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January 21, 2020 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Video #1 in the Series: Secrets from a Trainer on how to Engage Your Audience

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Welcome to my new video series:  Communication Strategies and Secrets from a Communication Strategist on how to Engage your Audience.  Tip 1 is so easy.  Arrive early at the room where you will be giving your presentation.  Communication strategies are important topics for my loyal readers and I do my best to address valuable ideas to fit their needs! 🙂

Communication Strategies #1:  Get comfortable with the room

Check out the chairs and seating arrangements.  Do you want your audience to sit in a circle, round tables or classroom style?  It makes a difference on the formality of your style, audience size,  and topic.  Practice with the microphone to make sure it is working and that there are no speakers in the ceiling that will make squeaky sounds.  Most hotels have staff dedicated to audiovisual issues.

Communication Strategies #2:  Greet your audience

Once you feel comfortable with the room set up, stand in the doorway and greet your audience.  This one idea will increase your audience communication strategiesengagement.  You can ask them the following questions to warm them up to you:

  • Why did you sign up for your session? That is if they had a choice to select from.
  • What do you hope to learn from me today?
  • What message do your peers need to hear from me?

You will gather great information to use to show your audience that you care about them.
Ask them if you can call on them especially if they have a great idea to share.

Stay tuned for more ideas on how to improve your presentations.  All of these ideas can be used in a small workshop or even a large keynote.

Stay Connected with Me

Add a comment to my blog on what you do to make the room comfortable for you and your audience.  You will receive a response from me because I enjoy connecting with my readers! 🙂  You are always welcome to send me a private email with concerns that you are experiencing at work.

Please contact me on my cell at 248.310.6998 or 800.713.1926 to explore how career coaching could be a great action step for your career development.  Lately clients have called to help them improve their public speaking skills.  It only took a few sessions and they were pleased with the results.  There are many options to fit your budget and time schedule! 🙂

Until next time,

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Career Coach and Communication Strategist

Have a great week.

Remember, YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Career Advancement is like riding a bike. Shift Gears from coasting to owning the road!

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: communication secrets, Communication Strategies
Tagged With: career development, public speaking skills

January 14, 2020 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Communication Strategies from the Wizard of Oz

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The quote from Wizard of Oz is perfect if you are not comfortable giving presentations to your board of directors, boss, team or even a room full of prospects.  This post is the first of a series on Secrets from a Communication Strategist to Create and Deliver Outstanding Presentations.  Let me know how you enjoy this series.

Do you get nervous when you have to give a talk to your company?
Would you like to know how to calm the butterflies in your stomach?
Are you using specific communication strategies when you give presentations?

There are times in my career when I’m lucky enough to coach clients on how to communicate their thoughts successfully during presentations.  Most of us are not professional speakers. There are communication strategies that we can all use to successfully speak to groups.  The ideas in this post came from 3 recent coaching sessions.  Let me know which one “speaks” to you.

Communication Strategy #1:  Be Prepared

This sounds so basic, doesn’t it?  We have to return to the basics when it comes to public speaking.  Know your stuff.  Look at your speech daily and read it out loud.  Feeling comfortable with your speech is very important.  Organizing your thoughts on paper takes time.  Start with an introduction, create the body of the speech and end up with a powerful ending.

Communication Strategy #2:  Memorize your Opening and Ending

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Once clients feel comfortable with their speech, it’s time to create a powerful opening and closing.  The opening can be a quote from a famous person, a provocative question or even a story of yours that will engage your group.  The ending can consist of the same quote that you used in the introduction, a call to action, or to ask the audience to stay in touch.  I strongly suggest that clients watch TED talks or successful speakers at their workplace to see how experienced communicators create outstanding speeches.

Communication Strategy #3:  Be Authentic

My secret sauce is to take serious topics such as firing employees, dealing with mediocre team members or bullies and make them fun.  At the beginning of my career, I hired a drama coach to help me understand where to stand on the stage, use my hands, and create powerful stories.  I concentrated so much on these new strategies that I lost my personality.  I wanted to be perfect in front of the audience.  Once I realized that my authenticity disappeared, I had to decide which strategies to keep and which ones to eliminate.

Making people smile is something that I do quite naturally.  I use my sarcasm, humor, and optimism to give them hope.  This is something I coach clients to do also.  I encourage them to find their secret sauce and use it!  Sue started to quote from her book.  She didn’t even think about this until our session.  Brad started using his photography in his talks.  His audience keeps on giving him positive feedback and he decided to create posters to sell at the presentations of his photos.

Stay Connected with Me

Please let us know how you faced fear and were able to move forward.  I will tell you about my fear of deep water and the motivation why I conquered the fear in a future post.  Add a comment to my blog on how you overcame fear and talked to your bully or boss or gave a speech even though your hands were visibly shaking from nerves.

You will receive a response from me because I enjoy connecting with my readers! 🙂  You are always welcome to send me a private email with concerns about a future talk that you need to create. After only a few coaching sessions you will use powerful communication strategies that I learned over 30 years ago from attending conferences at the National Speaker’s Association.

Please contact me at 800.713.1926 to explore how career coaching could be a great action step for your career development.
There are many options to fit your budget and time schedule! 🙂

Please click the link below to read an article on 6 Steps to Hire the Best Communication Strategist Best Suited for Your Company.
6 tips to select the communication strategist best suited for your organization pdf

Until next time,

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Career Coach and Communication Strategist

Have a great week.

Remember, YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Career Advancement is like riding a bike. Shift Gears from coasting to owning the road!  

 

 

 

Filed Under: Communication Strategist, successful presentations
Tagged With: effective communication, powerful communication strategies

January 7, 2020 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Video #8: More Stories on Verbal Aikido to Help You Gain Control

Do you want to hear real examples of how you can use Verbal Aikido to gain control during tough conversations?

Welcome to video #8 in the series on working with bullies in the workplace. Today I will share real stories from my clients who practiced and perfected verbal aikido and put this powerful communication tool to use.

At times bullies leave us alone when we stand up to them because they know we’re up to the test when we pull back from their sarcasm or cruelty.  Are you ready for the two examples?

Example #1 on how to use verbal aikido to gain control of bullies

Sue told her bully, “Beth, don’t even start.” And Sue walked away.  The bully got the idea and didn’t bother her in the future.  Sue reached gain control | communication strategiesher bully!  It looks easy yet the reality is that it takes real courage just like Sue showed.  I’ve used this example several times and it works like a charm because I’ve practiced just like clients do with me.

Example #2 on how to use verbal aikido to gain control of bullies

A teenager who was shorter than most of her classmates was picked on by the mean kid in school when she said, “give me your sandwich shrimp.” My client told her bully, “Pick on someone who is your size” after she was ridiculed.  The mean guy stopped bullying her after this.

Joyce, let’s get real!

I know some of you are thinking that this sounds too good to be true.  At times verbal aikido works and at times it doesn’t.  You know by now my conviction – we need to plan and prepare for things to get worse or better.  It’s worth the risk when things improve after the tough conversation.

If you missed the previous videos in the series visit my youtube channel, blog or LinkedIn.  You will find previous videos in the series below.

Intro Video to Protecting Yourself from Bullies in the Workplace
Video #1:  Facts about Bullies in the Workplace
Video #2:  Are you a Target for a Bully
Video #3:  Why Bullying Happens
Video #4:  Does Your Organization Handle Bullies?
Video#5:  The Gap and Triggers to Gain Control
Video #6:  Changing Our Attitudes to Protect Ourselves from Bullies
Video #7:  Verbal Aikido to Stop Letting Others Push You

Stay Connected with Me

Feel free to send me a private email if you have a question on how you can deal with your bully.

Add a comment to my blog on how you deal with negative people on your team.  What stories or expressions help you?
You will receive a response from me because I enjoy connecting with my readers! 🙂  You are always welcome to send me a private email
with concerns that you are experiencing at work.

Please contact me at 800.713.1926 or send me a text at 248.310.6998 to explore how career coaching could be a great action step for your career development. There are many options to fit your budget and time schedule! 🙂

Until next time,

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Career Coach and Communication Strategist

Until next time

Have a great week

Remember, You Get What YOU Tolerate!

 

 

 

Filed Under: bullies at work, verbal aikido
Tagged With: gain control, Respect in the Workplace

December 31, 2019 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

My Favorite Motivational Quote from Aesop to Start Your New Year

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Happy New Year to you and your family!

I thought that this motivational quote is a perfect one to share with you as we start our new year.  Think of all the acts of kindness that you showed this past year – giving to your favorite charity, helping the homeless, volunteering or so many other ways.favorite motivational quote | Joyce Weiss

An Act of Kindness Goes A LONG Way

I was spending some quality time with my grandson, Justin at our favorite restaurant.  We were talking about altruism.  Not a bad discussion to have with a 20-year-old! 🙂  Our waiter, Dylan was outstanding and we joked with him while he made the dining experience very special.  I decided to call over his manager to express our gratitude for Dylan’s professionalism.  I asked Dylan to join us because I wanted him to know what I was about to say to his manager.

Dylan’s eyes beamed with appreciation and his manager kept on thanking us for recognizing his star employee.  Justin said, “Joycee
(that’s what my 3 grandkids call me) you just showed an altruistic act.”

I didn’t even realize that when I was giving Dylan’s manager the positive feedback.  This small act of kindness was for one reason and one reason only, to make sure that Dylan’s manager knew how much we appreciated the entire meal, especially the service.

How do You Show Your Appreciation to Others?

Think about small acts of kindness that you showed this year, it feels great plus someone else benefits besides us.

Please let me know how you show acts of kindness.  Let’s spread this feeling to others because there is so much negativity and hate and these little things make a huge difference for others.

I always say that I change the world, one person at a time when I coach emerging leaders, individuals or small groups to kick conflict to the curb to get the respect that they deserve.  It doesn’t take much these days to show appreciation for someone else.

I thank all of my loyal readers for your comments, interest, and questions all of these years.  I appreciate you – big time!
Let’s toast each other at midnight. 🙂

Until next time,
Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Career Coach and Communication Strategist

Remember, You Get What YOU Tolerate!

Filed Under: favorite quotes, motivational quote
Tagged With: altruism, favorite quotes

December 24, 2019 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Seasons Greetings from Joyce Weiss

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I hope that you are spending some quality time with your friends, family and yourself during this holiday season!

Thoughts from Joyce

I was speaking to my son, Ron Weiss (RonWeissAttorney.com) about life the other day.  He came up with a simple yet important idea that is a good reminder for all of Joyce Weiss | Ron Weissus.  This coming year let’s do our best to appreciate what we have in our life.  We need to stop comparing our lives to others on their success either with family or work.

Social media does not help when we see the trips, family photos, promotions, etc from our friends.  “The grass has always been greener” when we look at others.  It does not have to be this way.  The moment we start looking at our reality and not making comparisons to others is the moment that we start enjoying our life.

Family, friends, and clients are three areas in my life that I NEVER take for granted.  It takes time, compromise, tough conversations, and positive energy to create these valuable relationships.

Joyce Gets Real

I can hear some of you say, “Joyce, I know this but my relative is so down and compares his or her life to others while ignoring the positives.”
Believe me, we all have friends and relatives who are down and out at times and who need a gentle reminder (ok not always gentle) on this important subject.  We all need a push at times and that’s why inspirational books, quotes, and trainers help others find joy in their life.

I will include some of my favorite motivational quotes and posters for the next few posts that you can share with those who need to hear this message.

Ron Weiss, I thank you for your gentle reminders to your mom at times to keep me on track.  That’s what families and good friends do.  We support and help each other when we are down and out or during positive moments.

Stay Connected with Joyce

Enjoy the holiday season and remember to look at what you have in life and share these thoughts with your loved one.  This could be the best gift that you can give.

Let me know what you are grateful for this season in the comment section or feel free to send me a private email HERE.

Please contact me at 800.713.1926 to explore how career coaching could be a great action step for your career development.
There are many options to fit your budget and time schedule! 🙂

Until next time,

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Career Coach and Communication Strategist

Have a great week.

Remember, YOU Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS Career Advancement is like riding a bike. Shift Gears from coasting to owning the road!

 

 

Filed Under: holiday greetings, motivational ideas
Tagged With: positive message, relationships

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