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Do you know how to control yourself when bullies in the workplace push your hot buttons?
Welcome to the series Protecting Yourself from Bullies in the Workplace. This video gives you 2 strategies on how to protect yourself from bullies.
If you missed any of the previous videos, please click the links below:
Intro Video to Protecting Yourself from Bullies in the Workplace
Video #1: Facts about Bullies in the Workplace
Video #2: Are you a Target for a Bully
Video #3: Why Bullying Happens
Video #4: Does Your Organization Handle Bullies?
Bullies in the Workplace Strategy #1: Use the GAP
- The GAP helps us make a choice on how we react
- It’s a space that we give ourselves to think about our response before we open our mouth
- Get into the GAP instead of automatically responding
- Recognize when you are angry and get into the GAP
- Separate yourself from the criticism
- Don’t take it personally
Bullies in the Workplace Strategy #2: Know your Triggers
- Be aware of who sets you off
- People do irritating things because that’s who they are – not because of who we are
- Prepare yourself before you see your trigger who drives you crazy
- Remind yourself that you don’t have to push back
- You can decide how to react
More Thoughts from Joyce
The GAP and knowing your TRIGGERS are 2 powerful strategies that get me through many professional and personal gatherings.
There are certain people who drive me crazy. I am human! 🙂 I know who these people are and prepare myself to leave the conversation earlier than I did before and take a deep breath to remind myself that I don’t need to get sucked into their negativity. Clients thank me for these 2 ideas since they work!
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This is Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Career Coach and Communication Strategist
Have a great week.
Until next time, remember…”You Get What You Tolerate!”
If you missed any of the previous videos in the series, please click the links below:
Intro Video to Protecting Yourself from Bullies in the Workplace
Video #1: Facts about Bullies in the Workplace
Video #2: Are you a Target for a Bully
Video #3: Why Bullying Happens
Video #4: Does Your Organization Handle Bullies?
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