Joyce Weiss

I work with organizations and individuals who want to kick conflict and chaos to the curb - Queen of Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach

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A Humorous yet Frustrating Conversation with Joyce and Jerry Weiss

Have you ever had a frustrating conversation with a family member because the other person didn’t understand what you were saying?

My husband, Jerry, and I had one of those moments while cooking a complicated dinner for our family. frustrating conversation

We misjudged how long it would take to prepare everything, and with just 30 minutes before they arrived, the kitchen turned into pure chaos. 

It felt like a scene straight out of The Bear—the stress was through the roof, there was way too much to do, andfrustrating conversation communication went out the window. 

But looking back, it was funny.

It also reminded me of Amelia Bedelia by Peggy Parish. 

Remember how Amelia’s boss told her to “draw the drapes,” and she drew a picture of them instead of opening them? 

Miscommunication can be like that—no one’s really to blame; it’s just a classic case of two people thinking differently.

At one point, I asked Jerry to shake the soup, and he took the pot off the stove and started shaking it! I had meant for him to shake the box of soup, not the whole pot. 

But instead of getting mad, we just started laughing. 

The tension melted away, and somehow, we pulled it together just as our family walked in. 

Dinner turned out amazing!

As a conflict resolution coach, I work with people to ensure they feel heard and understood. 

Miscommunication happens to everyone, and it’s not about assigning blame. 

Sometimes, you must step back, laugh at the situation, and figure it out together.

What’s a humorous miscommunication you’ve experienced, even though it probably didn’t seem funny then?

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If the subject in this week’s post interests you and you’d like to explore working with me as a conflict resolution coach or facilitator, please send me an email: Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com.

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Until Next Time, Be Well and Happy!

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Conflict Resolution Coach and Facilitator
Queen of Conflict Resolution

Remember, “You Get What You Tolerate”
Will it be Chaos or Calm?

 

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It’s Time to STOP Dealing with a Bully

Do you want to stop dealing with a bully at home or work?
Are you ready to stop feeling like a target and start using your voice?

This post includes information on how to easily Kick Conflict to the Curb™

Stop Dealing with a Bully Tip 1:

Start observing your bully. Noice if he or she treats others as rudely as he or she does to you. This may help you realize that the behavior has nothing to do with you, and you can stop taking this personally. 

Stop Dealing with a Bully Tip 2:

Take some time to self-reflect on what you learn about yourself. Discover how to stop reacting to him or her and start caring for yourself. This is the time to shift your mind from “I’m weak around my bully” to “I am in control, and my bully is rude to others, not just me.” 

The Lean Solutions Podcast

I was honored to be a guest on The Lean Solutions Podcast with Hosts Patrick Adams and Shayne Daughenbaugh. We discussed how to Kick Conflict to the Curb™.

We had an engaging conversation on how leaders must ensure their teams feel heard and respected. You’ll hear about strategies such as staying calm, practicing active listening, and expressing yourself clearly to feel comfortable during uncomfortable communication. 

Watch the fast-paced episode, which covers the following topics:

  • How to save time
  • Healthy versus unhealthy conflict
  • Commanding control versus building trust
  • Dealing with a bully supervisor

You can find more information on empowering and equipping people for positive change and Lean Solutions at https://www.findleansolutions.com/

Click on the link below to watch the entire episode:

https://youtu.be/9jl64tADTwQ?si=dZ2l4Z9MClyz4Q6o

Let’s Stay Connected

Please comment about this week’s post.  How does it resonate with you?

You can share in the comment section or email me HERE.

You’re Invited to Schedule a Complimentary “Jam with Joyce” Coaching Session

Let’s resolve any conflict you are experiencing at work or home. So you can transform from feeling overlooked to confidently using your voice.  

Email me, and I will send you my calendar. 

I support Department Managers to inspire and educate their direct reports who are tired of feeling invisible or overlooked. And are ready to confidently use their voice – without losing their cool. The result is their input is respected and recognized and their expertise is taken seriously.

Growth-minded individuals are also welcome to “Jam with Joyce.”

Until Next Time,
Be Well and Happy!

You Get What You Tolerate. Will it be Chaos or Calm?

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Communication Coach and Facilitator

P.S. Please share this post on your social media. As a result, other growth-minded people can stop feeling overlooked and start feeling heard and respected. We made it easy for you. The shareable social media links are below. 

 

 

 

 

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There’s More Than One Answer

  • Do you know people who don’t see that there’s more than one answer and are inflexible?
  • Have you considered viewing your conflicts from a broader angle?
  • Are you ready to transform your work and home relationships?

This is the first article in a series about understanding, exploring, and thinking about conflict in a new light. 

The short video below gives you food for thought on another way to examine conflict.

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Anais Nin, a French American novelist, once said, “We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are!”

We get stuck in our perspectives, focusing only on how conflicts affect us and what irritates us, But what if we could see things differently?

There’s more than one way to look at conflict and more than one answer. Remember, thinking our way is the only way often traps us in a never-ending cycle, like hamsters on a wheel.

If this idea resonates with you, I invite you to subscribe to my LinkedIn Newsletter, Kick Conflict to the Curb. You’ll discover more ideas on stopping feeling invisible and using your voice confidently! 

Let’s Stay Connected

Please comment about this week’s post. How does it resonate with you?

You can share in the comment section or send me an email HERE

Let me know your thoughts about this series about understanding, exploring, and thinking about conflict in a new light. I’m all ears. 🙂

Until Next Time, Be Well and Happy!

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Communication Coach
Queen of Conflict Resolution

Remember, “You Get What You Tolerate! Will it be chaos or peace?”

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A Personal Invitation for YOU!

Do you remember learning how to ride your first two-wheel bike? book club
Are you ready to discover how that experience impacted your life?

If so, the Michigan Lean Consortium invited me to discuss my book Take the Ride of Your Life: Shift Gears for More Balance, Growth, and Joy on Zoom – on June 27th at 4 PM ET. 

This interactive book discussion will share insights and experiences about our “bike riding lessons.” Led by the dynamic Melissa Sherman, Senior Quality Improvement Consultant at Consumers Energy, the conversation promises to be enlightening and entertaining. I am part of the event and plan on discussing new information about self-care and feeling heard and respected – my favorite facilitation topics! 🙂

You are invited to my complimentary book club event.

Here’s the link to register for the book club event:
https://michiganlean.org/event-5586834

Your bike riding memory required balance, and as your courage grew, you had so much fun – riding with the wind in your face! Discover how the actual “life lessons” help us navigate those inevitable life “bumps” more easily and resolve real burnout issues.

Imagine less drama and stress and enjoying your life even more! 

Invite your friends who need an uplift in their life. 

Discover how to purchase a VIP Book Special.

You will receive 2 signed copies of Take the Ride of Your Life for the price of 1 in the link below:
https://coach.joyceweiss.com/take-the-ride

Book Club Details

Date: June 27, 2024
Time: 4-5 PM ET/Virtual

Get ready to laugh, learn, and recharge!

Here’s the link to register for the book club event.
https://michiganlean.org/event-5586834

Warmly,

Joyce Weiss
Communication Coach

P.S. Many of you already have a copy of the book. It’s time to bring it back to remind yourself of the importance of SELF=CARE!  I’m also rereading it! 🙂
I’d love to see my loyal blog readers at the virtual book club event. Remember to register: https://michiganlean.org/event-5586834

P.P.S. Here’s a link to learn about Take the Ride of Your Life for those who don’t know about this fun and powerful book.
https://coach.joyceweiss.com/take-the-ride

Comments by Book Reviewers: Reduce Drama at Work and Home

“Joyce Weiss captures the immense pleasure and rewards of harnessing your earliest passion, transforming them into a way of life. She nurtures that same process in others. A must-read for anyone who has ever tried to take off on their two wheels.”

Lane Nameth
CEO Discovery Toys
 
“The idea of looking back to your first bike lesson to find your essential strength in life is a tremendous concept. And it works! By helping me remember and bring my bike story to life in this book, Joyce helped me recognize new sources of energy and vitality in myself. And to keep this process going. This is essential to me as an artist.”
Monte Nagler
Fine Arts Photographer
 
“For us, goals have been so important, both on and off the ice. Here, in one book, is one remarkable story after another. Plus all you need to turn inspiration into acceleration. Joyce Weiss is a dynamo. Her riveting book is destined to be a winner. And…HOWE!”
Gordie and Colleen Howe
Mr. and Mrs. Hockey
 
“This book gives you the confidence, and creativity to make it happen. An absolute gem. It belongs in the briefcase, backpack…or bike rack, of anyone with a dream!”
Joe Girard
Author of How to Sell Anything to Anybody
 
“Joyce has an amazing ability to help people see how simple it can be to “shift gears.” And to make those small changes. The result is that it can lead to such dramatic and overwhelmingly positive improvements, both at work and in their personal lives.”
Bob Danzig
Former Nationwide CEO of Hearst Newspapers
 
“This book is clear, organized, and logically sequential. The examples are helpful in applying the concepts to life’s situations. It is well-written and applicable to readers of all ages and walks of life.”
Virginia Hosback
Department of Health Education
Blue Cross/Blue Shield of MI
 
“I’ve never seen so many good and useful ideas between the two covers of a book. Bravo, Joyce. You’ve done it again. This latest book is pure genius!”
Mark “Doc” Andrews
Sports Director CBS-FM Radio, Detroit
 
“Terrific stuff – Joyce! You are an endless source of practical ideas and great inspiration for getting everyone involved in turning around potentially negative situations. The bicycle analogy is something we can all relate to and is a truly inspirational message.”
 
Bill Zehnder
President, Bavarian Inn Restaurant
Frankenmuth, Mi
 
“An entertaining, fun-filled book with inspirational, common-sense ideas guaranteed to motivate its reader. Joyce Weiss knows her stuff.”
Robert Shook
New York Times best-selling author
 

“Take the Ride of Your Life! Is a book capable of changing one’s life. And gives one the tools and courage to do just that. Author Weiss’ analogy of learning to ride a bicycle; the anticipation, the excitement, the heart-pounding fear, are used to help one to recognize that no improvements in life are made without a minimal amount of risk or uncertainty.

Shifting gears shouldn’t be so filled with fear, and with MS. Weiss’ help, doing so seems less dangerous. Instead, she offers the lure of the thrill of adventure as an incentive to risk change and strive for self-improvement.

The author explains, in her smooth and friendly writing style, that obstacles can be navigated and overcome. And, that feeling of fear and uncertainty can transform into feelings of freedom and adventure. Additionally, perhaps best of all, that we should never stop learning or exploring not only our own selves but those around us.

Author Joyce Weiss employs a realistic, though at the same time extremely encouraging manner to encourage attempts to attain our goals. Her lessons instill confidence; self-reliance and acceptance are heartfelt and compassionate. Most of all, one gets the sense that she truly cares. Her enthusiasm for her subject shines through in her casual though thought-provoking prose. Take the Ride of Your Life! offers motivation for everyone and it’s delivered with an uncanny combination of insight, warmth, and humor.”

Reviewed by Denise M Clark
Denise Pieces Book Reviews

 

 

 

 

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Your Resilience Playbook: From Work Woes to Work Wows!

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The first thing I do in the morning is brush my teeth and sharpen my tongue.   – Oscar Levant – American Humorist

This issue of Kick Conflict to the Curb™ helps you build your resilience. It covers three strategies for controlling frustrations with difficult people.

  • Are there specific individuals in your professional or social circles who seem to push your buttons effortlessly?
  • Do you find yourself wasting precious time and energy being irked by their presence?
  • If so, you’re not alone. We all encounter people who trigger us, whether they exhibit bullying tendencies, narcissistic behaviors, or rub us the wrong way.

But here’s the thing: instead of allowing these interactions to consume us, we can shift our perspective and reclaim control over our reactions. Rather than engaging in futile arguments or becoming defensive, we can employ simple yet powerful strategies to navigate these situations gracefully and confidently.

1. Observe Their Behavior

The first step in mastering irritation is to step back and observe the behavior of the individuals who trigger us. What patterns do they exhibit? How do they communicate? By adopting a curious and detached mindset, we can gain valuable insights into their motivations and triggers, helping us to depersonalize the situation.

Please click the link below for two more strategies to add to your Resilience Toolbox.

The link goes to my newly launched LinkedIn Newsletter – Kick Conflict to the Curb™.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/from-work-woes-wows-your-resilience-playbook-weiss-m-a-csp-cvp-ouq1e/?trackingId=sjXoTNTZTzGnKio%2FUZYYXw%3D%3D

1. If we are not connected on LinkedIn, now’s the time to do this because you’ll have a chance to ask me questions and share your opinions on the posts and motivational posters about feeling heard and respected! Connect with me on LinkedIn at https://LinkedIn.com/in/joyceweiss

2. Then go to my profile page, where you’ll see a link to subscribe to the Kick Conflict to the Curb Newsletter.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/from-work-woes-wows-your-resilience-playbook-weiss-m-a-csp-cvp-ouq1e/?trackingId=sjXoTNTZTzGnKio%2FUZYYXw%3D%3D

Please let me know how you build resilience once you read the newsletter.

Let’s Stay Connected

Please comment about this week’s post.  How does it resonate with you?

You can share in the comment section or email me HERE.

You’re Invited to Schedule a Complimentary “Jam with Joyce” Coaching Session

Let’s resolve any conflict you are experiencing at work or home. So you can transform from feeling overlooked to confidently using your voice.  

Let’s reduce your inner stress!

I support Department Managers in inspiring and educating their direct reports, who are tired of feeling invisible or overlooked and ready to use their voices confidently without losing their cool. The result is that their input is respected and recognized, and their expertise is taken seriously.

Growth-minded individuals are also welcome to “Jam with Joyce.”

Until Next Time, Be Well and Happy!

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach
Queen of Conflict Resolution

P.S. Please share this post on your social media. As a result, other growth-minded people can reduce their high drama and inner stress. We made it easy for you. The shareable social media links are below. 

Contact Joyce

Email: joyce@joyceweiss.com
Phone: 248-681-5831