Joyce Weiss

I work with organizations and individuals who want to kick conflict and chaos to the curb - Queen of Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach

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A Humorous yet Frustrating Conversation with Joyce and Jerry Weiss

Have you ever had a frustrating conversation with a family member because the other person didn’t understand what you were saying?

My husband, Jerry, and I had one of those moments while cooking a complicated dinner for our family. frustrating conversation

We misjudged how long it would take to prepare everything, and with just 30 minutes before they arrived, the kitchen turned into pure chaos. 

It felt like a scene straight out of The Bear—the stress was through the roof, there was way too much to do, andfrustrating conversation communication went out the window. 

But looking back, it was funny.

It also reminded me of Amelia Bedelia by Peggy Parish. 

Remember how Amelia’s boss told her to “draw the drapes,” and she drew a picture of them instead of opening them? 

Miscommunication can be like that—no one’s really to blame; it’s just a classic case of two people thinking differently.

At one point, I asked Jerry to shake the soup, and he took the pot off the stove and started shaking it! I had meant for him to shake the box of soup, not the whole pot. 

But instead of getting mad, we just started laughing. 

The tension melted away, and somehow, we pulled it together just as our family walked in. 

Dinner turned out amazing!

As a conflict resolution coach, I work with people to ensure they feel heard and understood. 

Miscommunication happens to everyone, and it’s not about assigning blame. 

Sometimes, you must step back, laugh at the situation, and figure it out together.

What’s a humorous miscommunication you’ve experienced, even though it probably didn’t seem funny then?

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If the subject in this week’s post interests you and you’d like to explore working with me as a conflict resolution coach or facilitator, please send me an email: Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com.

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Until Next Time, Be Well and Happy!

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Conflict Resolution Coach and Facilitator
Queen of Conflict Resolution

Remember, “You Get What You Tolerate”
Will it be Chaos or Calm?

 

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Tips to Be Happy EVEN in this Pandemic

Hello Loyal Readers!

Hopefully, you are intrigued by the title of this article – Tips to Be Happy Even in This Pandemic. I’ve been asked to address this important topic in my virtual training.  I see clients being frustrated by all the changes, new rules, and fear. Why in the world am I writing about Tips to be Happy during these stressful times.  For one reason and one reason only: Humor is an important survival skill. You will find a link to the article HERE: Tips on the Importance of Laughing even During Tough Times.

Mrs. Fred Rogers, wife of the TV personality was interviewed on how Mr. Rogers always stays so positive. Guess her answer. Come on. You are so close. 🙂  Her response was, “My husband was a good man. He constantly works on it.”

I do what I can to spin stress into positive energy. I’m realistic. I’m also a human being who is just as worried about the virus as the next person. I do my best to look at opportunities even during tough times. Both of my parents shared this quality and lucky for me, it’s in my DNA. Lucky for you, I share this tenacity with clients! It’s hard work and worth the effort. The two tips that you will find below are taken from my booklet, 19 Surefire Ways to Bring More Joy and Harmony Into Your Life.  We are creating a new site that will host 52 positive quotes with action activities and you will be the first to hear when it is ready for your eyes.

Tips to Be Happy #1:  Spend Time With Children tips to be happy

  1. See how curious they are about everything. They wake in the morning expecting to have fun.
  2. Write down a story when you were with a young child who said something that made you laugh or smile.
  3. Start collecting these communications or experiences. You will never be disappointed! 😊

 

Tips to Be Happy #2:  Explore New Options and Activities to Keep You and Your Family Engagedtips to be happy

  1. Determine what specific activities you can do to increase morale at home or work.
  2. Ask others to contribute their ideas
  3. What new games, outdoor activities, online gaming, or revisit family photos.

“The number one premise of business is that it need not be boring or dull.  It ought to be fun.  If it is not fun, you’re wasting your time.”
–  Tom Peters, Author

Let’s Stay Connected

Do you find these tips helpful? Please give us your input and we will continue adding more tips – only if you like these shorter posts.
I’m here to serve my Kick Conflict to the Curb Weekly Update Readers. If you like these tips you will see more in future posts.

What do you and your family do to add fun to their/your day?

What humor have you found happening with your family or work?

Send me an email with your feedback or comment on this post.

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Master Coach and Communication Strategist
QueenofConflictResolution

Have a Great Week!

Remember, You Get What YOU Tolerate!

PS You will find a link to the article HERE: Tips on the Importance of Laughing even During Tough Times.

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Tips on the Importance of Laughing even During Tough Times

Hello Dear Readers!

Do you know about the importance of laughing?
When’s the last time that you focused on something humorous?
Are you ready to smile – even just for a moment?

If so, please stay right where you are to take a quick moment to use your smile muscles.  I know you can do this! 🙂

Many of you know that most of my writings and coaching are about communicating through conflict. A hidden gem is that HUMOR has always been an important part of my life. I’m NOT a humorist! I am an individual who fights daily to find something positive even during low times in my life. I’m a realist and see that many people have forgotten to look at the good that is also happening right now even during the pandemic. A few of you asked me to write some upbeat articles for the next few articles. Your wish is my command.

The next few posts will be taken from a new site that we’re creating.  The site will give readers FREE quotes and Action Steps on communication, dealing with conflict, positive mindsets, motivation, etc.
The vision is that people who sign up will receive FREE tips and positive news delivered to their email once/week for one year.

You will find 2 of the tips below.  Please comment and answer the questions so we can start communicating with each other on these safe and fun ideas.
I’m all about reducing drama and finding more peace and respect in our life.  I’m not asking for much, right? 🙂

Tips To Be Happy #1 on The Importance of Laughing

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Realize that humor is all around you. You simply need to give yourself permission to find it. Take a moment to think of something that made you smile or laugh recently.
Write down this memory on what made you smile or laugh.

“Humor is a skill. We need to train ourselves to look for and find it.”
Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Master Coach & Communication Strategist

The photo is of my grandson Dylan who is now 20 and an engineering student.  It was fun for me to include this crazy photo. I used to dress as a clown and do magic tricks at reading rallies in Detroit.  No, I will not share a photo of me in a clown suit! 🙂

tips to be happy Tips To Be Happy #2 on The Importance of Laughing

Keep a daily humor journal, with a cartoon or story that made you smile. This will help you start looking for cute or funny things that happen every day.
Cut out or download a cartoon or write a story that made you laugh this week.
Send me an email HERE with a cartoon or photo that made you smile and I will send you a surprise!  Can’t tell you what it will be, or it won’t be a surprise. 🙂

Let’s Stay Connected

Let us know if you find these 2 tips helpful or not. I’m here to serve my Kick Conflict to the Curb Weekly Update readers.  If you like these tips you will see more in future posts.
If you like the deeper information that I send, let me know that too. It’s all about making this Blog engaging and something you enjoy receiving weekly.

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Master Coach and Communication Strategist
Queen of Conflict Resolution

Have a GREAT Week!

Remember, You Get What You Tolerate!

PS Stay tuned for a new course that I’m creating on “No More ZZ’s During Your Virtual Meetings.” The back story is alumni from my course Kick Conflict to the Curb asked how I created such engaging meetings (not bragging, just science on how to craft powerful and engaging meetings.) Let me know if this sounds interesting to you.

PPS Check out our updated website JoyceWeiss.com to find out how I can create positive and engaging virtual meetings or master coaching for your team, please reach out to Joyce@JoyceWeiss.com and cell: 248.310.6998
Just imagine –  NO MORE BORING VIRTUAL MEETINGS! 😉

 

 

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A Great Humorous Quote by Robert Frost

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The moment I saw this quote, is the moment that I knew I had to share it with you.  Humor is all around us even during tough times.  I’ll never forget a professor in my death and dying course when I attained my Master’s Degree in Guidance and Counseling.  He told us that we need humor especially when life gets in the way.  I thought he was off base at the time.  I now know the importance of his statement once I’ve experienced loss in my life.

I had a very warm and sweet father with a huge smile.  The only time he got mad at me was when I dyed my hair when I was 12 and it accidentally turned orange.  He pounded his hands on the ping pong table in my home in Oak Park MI and said, “Joyce, Why?  Why?” My mother and sister heard his loud words coming through the walls upstairs.  I told this story during his eulogy because I wanted to share this memory with our family and friends.  This story brought smiles to everyone listening.  That was the plan! 🙂

‘We honored the memory of Joseph Morris that day.  I even wore red.  Who wears red to a funeral?  This was my father’s favorite color.

I want to hear from you

What about you?  When have you used humor during a tough moment in your life?  How has humor helped you?  What humorous quotes do you use to get you through difficult times?

You will receive a response from me because I enjoy connecting with my readers! 🙂  You are always welcome to send me a private email with concerns that you are experiencing at work.

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This is Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Corporate Communication Strategist and Accountability Coach

Have a great week.

Until next time, remember…”You Get What You Tolerate!”

Contact Joyce

Email: joyce@joyceweiss.com
Phone: 248-681-5831