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I work with organizations and individuals who want to kick conflict and chaos to the curb - Queen of Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach

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August 16, 2023 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Are YOU Ready to Conquer Self-Doubt?

Here’s another article about self-doubt. The topic comes up during most individual and group facilitation coaching sessions. Self-doubt is worth repeating so we can finally conquer it when it seeps into our lives. 

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As a leader, you probably know that being bullied and/or trying to hide the deep roots of imposter syndrome are two of the biggest challenges that can create an unproductive and unenjoyable workplace.

I recently discussed both of these issues as a guest on Management Consultant Tom Borg’s Business Show.

Our conversation revolved around the crucial topics of how bullies and imposter syndrome can be effectively dealt with when you have the right tools, and with insight and application, it can be instrumental in helping leaders overcome the anxiety and self-doubt that arises from these situations, empowering themselves and their teams.

 

How Imposter Syndrome Gets in Our Way

Imposter syndrome can often hinder your ability to speak up or engage in difficult conversations because there is a (false) belief that you’re not really as capable or qualified as others seem to think you are.

The short video is a clip from our important conversation.

Implement the Following Strategies to Eliminate Self-Doubt and Watch Self-Confidence Grow:

  • Take a moment to recall a situation in which you confidently used your voice in a powerful way.
  • What gave you the courage to do that?
  • This reaffirms your ability to make a positive impact. After all, if you did it once, you can do it again! 
  • Remind yourself of these instances, which helps strengthen your belief in your abilities.

     

    Create a Happier Working Environment

    By actively implementing these strategies, you can prevent self-doubt and imposter syndrome from negatively impacting your mindset and use your skills and talent to contribute, creating a better, happier, and more productive working environment for everyone.

    The more consistently we employ these techniques, the less control these negative influences will have over our lives. As a result, self-confidence will flourish, enabling you and your employees to thrive personally and professionally.

Do You Want to See the Entire Show?

If you’re interested in watching the entire show, just reply to this email with the word “Confidence,” and I’ll send you the replay!

The interview, lasting less than 30 minutes, covers important topics for Department Managers, Leaders, and Growth-Minded Individuals and provides valuable coaching insights that can be applied to your team.

Please let me know if you would like to access the complete interview by sending me an email with the word “Confidence,” and I will promptly provide you with the link.

I hope these strategies help you to experience more enjoyment at work and empower yourself and your team.

Who is Joyce Weiss?

Joyce is the Queen of Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach and works with HR Pros and Growth-Minded Individuals, tired of feeling invisible and overlooked. And are ready to confidently use their voice – without losing their cool.

They transform from no longer feeling invisible to having their input recognized and respected.


I enjoy supporting my loyal readers! 

If you’re ready for the next level of support, email me at joyce@joyceweiss.com to set up a complimentary clarity call.

I will personally respond and provide you with my online calendar.

What we will discover on the 20-minute clarity call:

  • Get extreme clarity on your current challenge
  • Understand what is necessary to get you from where you are to where you want to be
  • Create an action plan, so you know what your next steps are.

This is NOT a sales call! 🙂

Hope you have a great week!

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Queen of Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach

P.S. Click Here if you want to read another article – “Transform Self-Doubt Into Action – Are you Ready?

You will find more strategies to put to use immediately and watch your self-confidence grow!

Filed Under: imposter syndrome, self-doubt

September 2, 2020 By Joyce Weiss Leave a Comment

Find out Why Respect is So Important to Me. Are You Finally Ready to Get the Respect YOU Deserve?

As a Master Coach I hear the struggles of clients who experience bullies, poor performance, gossip, clicks, low morale, direct reports with no people skills, miscommunications, can I stop now? 🙂

After taking 4 courses on how to create and present engaging online programs, I decided to create a new online class that is rocking my clients. The video will give you information about our online course: Kick Conflict to the Curb that starts September 15th. The beginning of the video shares a “lesson” on verbal aikido – a strategic communication tool to help you gain control when others push you.

Take out the popcorn and enjoy it. Make sure and check out my story below on why getting respect is so important to me. You’ll get an inside look about your Master Coach.

https://vimeo.com/450928167

Here’s my story on why respect is important to me.

A TV host found me online through my trademark, “Be Direct with Respect®.” He asked me to appear on his show, sharing why respect is so important to me. For once, I, the communication strategist, couldn’t think of a thing to say. Suddenly, I remembered a turning point I’d buried years before.

At 21, fresh out of college and a brand new teacher, I moved out on my own. While my parents had imbued me with a belief in hard work and persistence, I was still a free spirit with my self-esteem intact. Or so I thought. Then I met Jerry.

After a one-year courtship, we married. Then we argued—just like any couple. The problem was that Jerry is a talented attorney. Each time we disagreed, I felt like we were in court. Since I had no training in argumentation, I was no match. My outlook had always been positive and focused on fairness, but that situation was neither positive nor fair. I didn’t have a clue how to stand up for myself. After several months, all my energy was gone and I felt invisible and voiceless —as if I’d been zapped by the Dementors from Harry Potter. I didn’t want to leave him but I couldn’t continue as we were.

Instead, I became a woman on a mission. Assertiveness was my Holy Grail. Somehow, I would make my husband behave. However, reading The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner really opened my eyes. Dr. Lerner points out that when one person in a relationship changes the steps of a dance, the other follows. It became so clear! All that time, I had been trying to fix Jerry, and nothing had ever changed except my frustration level. Now I realized I had to alter the steps of the dance. It was me who needed to change. I’d have to take a risk and have a tough conversation the next time we disagreed.

The argument that broke this passive pattern involved my decision to go back to school and pursue a career in counseling and coaching. I was thrilled, and of course, I thought Jerry would be as delighted as I was. I couldn’t wait to share my new ideas with Mr. Lawyer. Imagine my shock when Jerry told me that it would be a waste of time. He wanted me to go into sales since he knew how focused and hardworking I was.

At that moment, the old Joyce disappeared. I kept calm, drew in a breath, and took a huge risk. “I am frustrated when I share my excitement about becoming a counselor because my ideas are discounted.” I had done it—I’d changed the dance steps! Jerry was surprised by my direct statement but realized I respected him and was not sarcastic. Most importantly, I’d respected myself by standing up for what was important to me.

That one conversation changed our entire relationship. It took many more books and months of coaching for both of us to change our steps, but it worked. We are still happily married. Of course, we still disagree, but now we interact as equals and there is no winning or losing. When people ask why I specialize in conflict management, I tell them that I married a lawyer. They laugh and think that I’m joking. You know the rest of my story.

What did you think of my story about respect? Can you relate?

I’d love to hear from you. Why is respect important to you? What’s your story?
Please send me a private email if you have a question about your conflict challenges. I will get back to you because connecting with my clients is #1 plus its so much fun to get to know each other better. You can always call my cell; 248.310.6998.

There’s more! Click HERE for our Kick Conflict to the Curb landing page which describes the new online course in detail. Feel free to contact me to see if the class is right for you or your team.
I’d love to save you a seat!

Have a GREAT week,
Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP
Queen of Conflict Resolution

 

Filed Under: bullies at work, Kick Conflict to the Curb Online Course
Tagged With: resolve conflict and interpersonal issues, Respect in the Workplace

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