Stop the Rudeness in Your Life: How to Deal with Jerks #1

I see that this headline caught your attention!

• Do you see more rudeness lately?
• Are you ready to deal with jerks in your life – without being a jerk?
• What stories do you want to share about these rude people?

I answered “yes” to all of these questions. What about you?

You will receive this new series on how to Stop Rudeness in Your Life for the next few weeks. My motivation for writing these articles is that I see more rudeness.  And so do my clients. Each week covers real stories about jerks – no exaggerations! Additionally, I will include strategies on how to deal with rude people.

This is your chance to answer how you would handle each scenario for the next few weeks.  In addition, all comments are appreciated along with your own “jerk stories!”

Here We Go with True Story #1 on How to Deal with Jerks

Bob and Gary are two colleagues who don’t get along. Bob realized that no matter what he said or did, Gary would do his best to ridicule Bob at meetings.  As a result, the tension got out of hand. 
Here is Bob’s “situation”:   

One day Bob was standing by his desk. And Gary walked by him. Gary actually stepped on Bob’s foot purposely! That’s it! I promise this really did happen to Bob. I can’t make this stuff up if I tried. 

How Would You Deal with Jerks in Your Life Like Gary?

• What would you do or say if you were Bob?
• How would you handle this situation if you were the boss?

Joyce, Please Tell Us What You Would Do with Jerks in Your Life

I have a couple of answers.  You will read about them next week.

This is the time I’m asking YOU to reach out. And share your answers on how you would handle Gary in the comment section.

Let’s Stay Connected

Please share your thoughts about this week’s post.

• How does it resonate with you?
• What rude behavior have you seen at work or in your personal life?
• Don’t get me started about jerks on airplanes these days!

You can share your thoughts in the comment section or send me a private email HERE.

Here’s a link to my article, Cruel Words Take Root in Us

Until Next Time,

Joyce Weiss, M.A., CSP, CVP
Conflict Resolution and Communication Coach
Queen of Conflict Resolution

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P.P.S. I’m the Human Resource Professional’s Partner. I coach employees and managers to feel comfortable using their voice without losing their cool – so they feel heard and respected.

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